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Al-anonfavorite slogan time again!


I need slogans for my wall. I have a bunch, but I know there are more out there. Anyone with slogans please share them with me. Thanks and happy turkey day to all! Here is what I have on my wall now, Any new ones out there?smile

"Place me where you want me and tell me what to do".

You didn't Cause it, you can't Cure it and you can't Control it.

Let Go and Let God

S-save
M-mother
O-obsess
O-own
T-take abuse
H-HP (be his or let him be your tin God)
E-expect
R-react

One Day at a Time

Easy Does It

He/She will either drink, or he/she won't.... what are YOU gonna do?


Try looking at your active A with a large SSS stamped on their forehead


Focus on the "whats", not the "whys" - the whys will kill ya...


Honesty got you there, tolerance keeps you there

Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. Dr. Suess


You don't have to attend every argument you're invited to.

God grant me the serenity
To accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can,
And wisdom to know the difference.

Think, Don't React


How Important Is It


When In Doubt Don't

No Is A Complete Sentence, Feel Good About Saying No


Listen And Learn


Fake It Till You Make It

Insanity "Doing the same things over and over again expecting different results".

"If I keep doing what I've always done I'll keep getting what I've always gotten."

"If it ain't broke...don't fix it".

G.O.D. - Good Orderly Direction

Listen and Learn...take the cotton out of your ears and put it in your mouth. You have TWO ears and ONE mouth for a reason - use the ears twice as often as you use the mouth.

When you're confused about what you should do and where you should be, stand very still for a while and look down at your feet...that will tell you where you are at; next look directly above you and ask, "Where do you want me?" then listen with both of your ears.

The alcoholic is a sick person because they drink too much, what is my excuse. (enablers question).

what you think of me is none of my business

There is only one thing you need to change about yourself in Al-Anon

... E V E R Y T H I N G.

Steps One thru Three condensed. "I can't - God can - I'll let Him"

The twelve steps condensed. Trust God - Clean House - Help Others.

When at first you don't succeed...call your sponsor.

Next time you're feeling smart and think you know the solution to the alcoholic's problem...Say out loud "I think you should..." and then listen quietly. Most often you can hear God laugh.

"Recovery isn't winning, it's not playing."

"Serenity is when your body and mind are in the same place."

Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional."

I refrain from practicing the 4 M's found in our literature which are:

Mothering

Manipulating

Managing

Matyrdom

I have a full life today that is worth living. I remain grounded in my recovery and keep the focus on me leaving the results up to my HP.

I have now reached a place on my journey where I will no longer tolerate unacceptable behavior.

I also like "An expectation is a future resentment" or

If you're not a fortune teller...stay out of the future.

Having a resentment is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die.

Often times the answer to a prayer is No or Wait.

There is only one God...I'm not it and neither are you.

Most naturally what you get from carrying too much weight is a hernia.

Many people will not choose recovery because of the fear or the pain of surgery.

My experience has been that when I am unwilling to ask for help, and I insist that I can do it all myself, I'm just a drunk talking to a crazy person.

I thought I was so cool. Then my sponsor pointed out that the definition of "cool" is "not so hot."

None of us came here on a winning streak

"If you do not know where you are going, then any road will take you there."

"Minds are like parachutes. They only function when they are open"

If I can't be a good example then I will just have to serve as a horrible warning

Take the mess to your sponsor, the message to the meeting

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Thank you!

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Wow, you almost covered the gamut with your list, so I only have a couple to add....

 

"Strong enough to stay, strong enough to leave"

"You can't eat an elephant all in one bite... the proper way to eat an elephant is slowly, one bite at a time"

"I did the best I could, with what I knew at the time"

"It is neither good, nor bad... it simply is"

 

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-- Edited by canadianguy on Thursday 22nd of November 2012 11:44:10 AM

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"He is either gonna drink, or he won't.... what are YOU gonna do?"

"What you think of me is none of my business"

"If you knew the answer to what you are worrying about, would it REALLY change anything?"

 

 

 

 



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If I deserted everyone in my family who is (insert disease of choice) there would be no one left to blame but myself - maybe I should begin with myself and let the others be who they are. -- I believe they call that "Live & Let Live"

If I have one finger pointed towards someone in blame, I have three pointing back at myself.

Selfishness, self centerdness, that we think is the root of our problem... (AA Big Book)

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Great List

I did not see:

 I refuse to JADE:   Justify, Argue, Defend or Engage

  and

I Must Remember to "Stay In my Own Hula Hoop"

How this Program Works  Honest, OPen and Willing



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THE HIGHEST FORM OF WISDOM IS KINDNESS

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did you have HALT in there?

cannot control anyone but me?

its insane to try to rationalize insanity

drop the rock

stay out of the pit

detach detach detach

does it really matter

don't sweat the small stuff

stinking thinking

I can choose how I react

mean what you say but don't be mean

love the person hate the disease

A's do not think like non A's.

I really believe that one is important. We always seem to think but but he or she could... or why.... etc. they do not get it like we do nor do we them!

what am I grateful for

Keep it simple

when in doubt eat cheesecake? get a pizza? kiss someone? get a puppy or kitten? sing? wrap up in a down comforter?

hug everyone? ummmm huh? hugs honey, debilyn who always has to think outside of the box......square peg don'tcha know

 

 

 



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I was thinking of:

Don't just do something sit there!

Let go or be dragged (I don't know if that's an alanon saying however .. LOL .. it's how I best relate to let go and let God)

Worry never rocked a rocking chair (I say worry never moved a rock)

Resentments are like taking poison waiting for the other person to die.

Would have, could have, should have (AA)

I can't fix manage or control another person. (AA)

First thing first.

Do the next right thing.

One Day At A Time

I only have to do this one day at a time.

I don't know what is actually alanon, what are some of my pushka'ism's and what is AA that makes a whole lot of sense to me.

Hugs P :)

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Stepping onto a brand-new path is difficult, but not more difficult than remaining in a situation, which is not nurturing to the whole woman.- Maya Angelo



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love the person, hate the disease-I am sure having trouble with this one! I'm good with the hate the disease part. I'm numb towards my A-can't feel the love, Lyne

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