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hotrod


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((((Icie))))

I am so very sorry that  this disease has again caused you such pain and suffering.  When you get into the chat room, changing your name to another log on name is accomplished by typing a "nick  name" in the white box on the bottom right and then  clicking enter.

Please take care of yourself and stay in the moment and in the day.  Let Go and Let God.  I know that when I  used the slogan "Live and let Live i had to learn to have the clarity to allow  others to be themselves and then I had to learn to not react but to act in my own best interests.

You will always love your sons and praying for them is a powerful way to express that love. 

Trust HP

You are not alone



-- Edited by hotrod on Tuesday 2nd of October 2012 10:19:38 PM

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Icie


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I tried to join the on line Al anon group tonight, but did Not & could not figure out how to change to my nickname ?????

I had a really bad day & right now I cannot stop the tears. I am dammed if I do & dammed if I don't. As you know one son is a alcoholic & another son is married to a alcoholic lady. The Alcoholic DIL constantly finds ways to get my non alcoholic son ( her husband ) to kick me, for 10 years I was able to detach, bite my tongue, turn it over to God & today I lost it big time. I am so sick & tired of being sick & tired & all the sickness & losing my sanity. I realized today once again to save myself I have to completely detach & I cannot be in either of those two sons lives. God it hurts so bad, because I love both my sons so very much!

I am at work & could not get to a face to face meeting today.

 



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Icie


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Thank you so very much hotrod. I needed to hear exactly what you said..not to react, but act in my own best interest ...live & let live & let God.
Once again thanks.

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Icie

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Sending you love and support on your journey!

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there's a chat room? where? please let me know!



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Icie


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Try going here for the chat room ( al anon ) meeting room
http://www.12stepforums.net/chatroom2.html



-- Edited by Icie on Wednesday 3rd of October 2012 09:04:21 AM

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