As some of you know, my AH has been in rehab for almost 2 months now. Due to the nature of his business (restaurant/bar) he will have to make a major change once he gets out of rehab. His councellor has agreed that although big changes at this stage are unadvisable, his situation requires it.

His family are a nightmare and have made my life pretty miserable over the years. I have recently been able to detach completely and wish them well. In my moment of clarity I realized that we can start our new life anywhere, it does not have to be here, and to be honest AH really needs to cut the apron strings and be his own man. There really is nothing keeping us here and the business options immediately available can be applied anywhere. I spoke to him about a major move last night and he seemed ok with the thought but as we spoke he seemed a bit less inclined towards it. He will need time to process it and we will speak again when I see him on Sunday but what I want to know is if anyone has had a similar experience and how it panned out? Am I jumping the gun here or does my logic have any merit?