Hi all,

i shared how my ex abf has not had a drink for over a weak and I let him stay here while sorts himself out.

Thanks for your ESH on this lots of objectivity and clarity.

I have helped so much over the years and now I have had my own pace for about six months I have gain serenity and grown alot.  I had a talk with him last night as he seemed to be getting too comfortable and told him I never had the resources to have him stay here long term.  Also newly sober his behavior is very agitate he can not sit still.  i felt guilty this morning and was upset, but my inner voice was telling me I have to do what is right for me and my 16 year old daughter.  I rang a recovery member and she listened while I bashed it out.  I answered all my own questions she explained that the struggle was his and my guilt was false.  So he is going to find somewhere else, I am talking with kindness its horrible to watch someone sturggle but as my friends explained my serentity is the reward for working hard at my programme and I can not loose it.  Just pray he gets his back with the help of his Hp

hugs and thanks again

Tracy xxx