I can't shake the anger @ my mother's friend/caregiver, who is a major A & a control freak.  He thinks he's helping but he is actually doing damage.  I tried to let it go but sometimes the letting go is easier said than done.  I am taking steps with my brother to remedy the situation, and hopefully the insanity won't keep repeating.  I am trying not to be helpless.  And have courage to change what I can.  But maybe my venting to you will help me calm down.  The A is not worth it, but my elderly mom is.  Lyne