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OK so my husband is now 9 months sober and within the past 2. Weeks he has started to get emotionally mean again. I feel emotionally tired and he sayhes going to help but doesn't I work 7 days a week he works 3 and he says mean things to me when I take naps before I go to work he just told me that if I keep making him get groceries for our kids he's just going to leave I have hung in with him by his side and now he's mentally starting over I'm so depressed can anyone help me any ideas
Thanks
Babyblue
Have you gone to any face to face meetings?? It's a great place to start. You aren't going to fix him or change him .. you can only fix yourself and work on you.
Hugs P :)
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Stepping onto a brand-new path is difficult, but not more difficult than remaining in a situation, which is not nurturing to the whole woman.- Maya Angelo
I am glad you came here to vent, I remember being suprised by others having a hard time with newly sober partners and now I realize it seems pretty common. Is he working an A.A. program or white knuckling it, are you working an Al-anon program? Working 7 days a week would tire me out especially if you have kids also. Keep trying to get in naps and take care of yourself! Sending you love and support!
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