The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I was seriously thinking about getting ahold of my first boyfriend recently whom I do not hate by the way! I tried to reach out--foolishly but realized that he is not someone I really want to catch up w/. Last time I saw him he was sober & still attending AA meetings. I just thought that I might like to know what he has been up to all these years. I haven't seen him since '89 & kind of feel like letting lying downs lie. I know he is OK & single & that is really all I need to know since I am married, right? The funny thing is is that he is for sure the same as he was as his interests haven't changed.
Enough of that! I just wanted to mention it w/o opening to big of a can of worms! Actually that is what I was getting at last week when I mentioned letting someone getting in my head & ruining my serenity!
I am doing well besides my constant need to reflect on the past--I need to make a better present so I won't do that & that is all up to me no one else is responsible for making my moments better.
That's all! I will be on here MONDAY! Hope to see some on your posts when I get back!
((((((Kathleen)))))....Mahalo Nui Kathleen...Thanks sooo much...your post and the, about catagory 5 earthquake we just had reminded me to call an old Al-Anon aquaintenance who was a former sponsor. "she" let me know that my true sponsor Don T just passed on (I don't miss him cause I carry him with me 24/7) and I still love him...HP's enjoying his program now. How great how this family workes for each other. This was the other form of DO, the opposite of what you were refering to. That one I can do also but for today, with your experience, I won't do do that.
Yeah I wonder how my old high school sweetheart is doing? She must miss me by now. Well she put our son up for adoption, she hasn't contacted me in almost 40 years, she ignores all my pokes on facebook and I'm happily married anyway. But still.....I wonder if she remembers me and all the fun we thought we were having....LOL. Just kidding Kathleen. I love all your shares. Have a wonderful day.
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Not all my days are priceless, but none of them are worthless, anymore.
