The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
After separating from my Ah a couple of months ago with quite alot of blame towards him. I am beginning to see that I have not been a happy or content person for quite some time.
The home life was confusing for sometime, and I think that is the thing I will bear in mind when I try to make sense of where I am in my life at the moment.
I have a chance to put some changes in my day to day choices that care for me. Simple things like walking, or making choices about what I would like. It is amazing how good it feels to begin making choices that I choose.
I fully understand where you are coming from, taking things one day at a time. I keep hearing the term "new normal" and at first I would balk when I heard that term and now I'm fully embracing it.
May you have much continued healing and peace, hugs P :)
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Stepping onto a brand-new path is difficult, but not more difficult than remaining in a situation, which is not nurturing to the whole woman.- Maya Angelo
Hi Kim- you are in a good place right now. I hope you are going to f2f meetings, reading Al-Anon literature, and have a sponsor. Those are all things that have helped me now that I am separated from my AH. This is your time to take care of you. One day at a time...