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Post Info TOPIC: New here and I'm ready to begin to put my life back together


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New here and I'm ready to begin to put my life back together


My name is Amy and I have been in Al Anon before but not for a long time.  I chose bad relationships....what I mean is I'm co-dependent. My father was an alcoholic and my last four relationships have been a disaster. My family hasnt spoken to me in two years this May....my mother, my sisters, and my 2 daughters. All because of the bad choices in relationships I have made. I have lost my job, my home, and my family. I guess you could say I have hit rock bottom. I would like to make amends to the people I have hurt through my behavior. I'm ready now to face the truth.

 



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Amy Fontenot


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Welcome! I am so glad you found us here. I am sorry you are having such a hard time right now, but the pain and anguish that brought me to the understanding rooms of Al Anon ended up being the best thing that could have happened to me, so I could get the help and support and recovery I so desparately needed. Sending you so much support and welcome back!

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Hi and welcome Amy! I know that is must feel so challenging right now. For me, I really did have to hit that rock bottom so that I could get my life back and find happiness and get things back on track...I am still pretty new in the program so things are a bit wobbly but I do know that for me it has only changed my life for the better. Keep coming back and glad you are here!

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Thank you Danni. That was very kind of you. smile



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Amy Fontenot


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Welcome to MIP! We have all made mistakes and be gentle with yourself right now. When I hit rock bottom and fould Al-anon it was the perfect place for me to be humbled and ready to grow through my issues and start taking care of me. I now have so much love and hope thanks to my face to face meetings, MIP and my sponsor. I hear you owning your part and working the steps which is a great start already! Keep coming back! Sending you love and support!

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Nice to hear from you Daisy. I wasn't quite sure what to expect when I put up my post...but hearing the positive feedback from you and Danni really made me feel good tonight. Thank you. smile



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Amy Fontenot


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Thank you...I think I will.  I really need to know the right way to go about making amends to the people I have hurt. I miss my family. cry



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Amy Fontenot


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Welcome Amy!!! I hit a rock bottom. They hurt but they are necessary. Youre in the right place. I recommend face to face meetings and getting a sponsor.

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