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Tracey C


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Hi,

I just wanted to share that I'm starting to see my part in the relationships I have.  It is not easy seeing that I have caused as much pain and suffering , as they have done to myself.  It is not good.  This may be time to start my inventory work.  Oh my goodness, what a start. no

Tracey



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Jerry F


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Aloha Tracy...Good for you using this as an opportunity to get rigorously honest and go to work on amending and building a better you.  That is how our program of recovery works...during the work what comes out is a much better you beyond your imagination and an instrument of your HP to help others find what you've found.   I have always just loved to watch the miracles happen in recovery.  We have one that is going on right now in our Wednesday Night Turning Point Al-Anon Family Group in Hilo that is just awesome to watch.  It gives the rest of us soooo much confidence and hope.

Your part never ends.  It changes and gets better.   Thanks for the share.   (((((hugs))))) smile



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hotrod


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Hi Tracey

Great awareness. The program is powerful and when we begin to really "See",  it is helpful to be working with a sponsor.

I too was shocked to see "My part" and as so glad that I did

You are doing well Please keep sharing the journey



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Lindaoakford


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I would just like to do a quick reminder that we play a part in what has happened, but we must also remember that is not a condemnation, it is not a blame. It is just a fact and we are ready to fix it for the better us.

I am not too sure how to fix it, but i know I have certainly hurt people when I have been just as sick for the past 40 years, as those around me that I say hurt me.

I jsut don't really know where to start to make it right.

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Sounds like great awareness and don't beat yourself up with it. I am doing the steps with my sponsor and on the step board and it has helped me grow a lot. Sending you love and support!

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