My first thought is, it is not how you talk to your son that is bugging him.

I would have asked,"What is it about it that bugs you?" Ya see to me people usually are trying to get out what is really wrong to them. Ex he feels left out, he wants more attention, he wants you both to be ont eh same page as far as how you are with son??

Also one thing I have learned on MIP is people tend to tell others what to do like they have a right to do that. OR they think it is ok to get into someone elses inventory.

I did not grow up like this.

He says that to you like it is his business, and you say back,"you should..."

I like how Kahil Gibran put it that two people  in a relationship are two separate pillars holding up the same thing. They are not one thing to battle with each other. they have to keep each other strong or what they hold up falls.

Maybe he just needs to talk over thing he feels about your son. ya see for me its not any of anyones business how I talk to my own children. A or not.

A or not, we love, adore, long for our children to be ok and happy.'

Honestly when people are that passionate about something there is MUCH more that needs to be talked about.

Hey at least you have a father who cares and is home! (c: Maybe together you can find a happy medium.

Sounds like you guys need a date!!!! love,debilyn