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I have not logged on in a very long time but I have occasionally been reading.....I was going through emails today and saw this post, I must say I just sat and cried!!! I am so sorry for your loss and for "our" loss. Rodney was literally my savior in many ways. His kind words and generosity, his messages if I was not on for awhile. The books I received are in my mind why I am who I am today. I cannot express how saddened I am as well as in shock. Rest in peace Rodney.
I am terribly saddened by this news it has taken a few days for it to really hit me. Rodney was the first person to welcome me to this room and I learned the last couple of years to read his posts and replys very closely as he always taught me something that increased my growth in this program. Melissa I am so sorry you lost your friend, I can imagine he was an amazing friend and this is a huge loss for you. Please extend my condolences to his family and other friends and let them know they are in my prayers and Rodney will always hold a place in my heart. May he rest in peace in the loving arms of his HP.
So so so so sad...I just got home a few hours ago from being at my wife's family for the holidays and just saw the news. This man helped me so much. I pray for his wife and his children and his family. Goodbye Rodney, and thank you so much for everything...
I was shocked and saddened to hear this. RLC was a good MIP friend and will be sorely missed. I think Canadian Guy had a good idea on posting RLC's last post. I'm continuing with that train of thought and re-posting one of RLC's thread's written Nov. 2:
How to Live a Full Life.
The program at my Tuesday night meeting was on "How To Lead A Full Life?".
It would be interesting reading what members have to share, a way of giving back to newcomers and old timers alike.
How do you lead a full life?
HUGS,
RLC
I think he showed us well. Might be something to think about today.
Hugs to all my MIP friends,
Overcome
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I haven`t been around for awhile myself but I too remember RLC. I`am saddened to hear that he has passed. It is a reminder to me that we only have the day. His friends and family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
I haven't been to MIP for a couple weeks and saw JerryF's post about missing Rodney. I got a huge lump in my throat while secretly hoping that the post I was about to open wasn't about my Rodney, our Rodney, THE Rodney.
RLC and I had a special little bond in that the first evening he came to MIP he found the chatroom and me. He had so many questions about Alanon and HP. I talked to him until it was just he and I left in the chatroom in the wee hours.. He liked to joke that I "shut him in the room and pelted him with hope". As RLC grew in Alanon I couldn't help but feel a certain pride in the strides he made. It was like planting a seed and watching it grow and flower, and that he did! He spoke so warmly to new people with a heartfelt welcome and understanding. His input to others gave the impression he had been around for eons. RLC was a wise and wonderful steward of the Alanon program and a dear, dear friend.
He will be greatly missed...
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Thank you so much for sharing your memory of Rodney. I am so glad you smothered him in hope and strength on his first night here. He was a blessing to the forum and his memory is so alive on this board.