"He is either gonna drink, or he won't.... what are YOU gonna do?"

MDK · Veteran Member

RLC - Has Passed Away - please read

Tracey C · Senior Member

RE: RLC - please read

GailMichelle · ~*Service Worker*~

Melisa, Thank you for informing us of his passing. I knew you went to meetings with him; however, I wasn't aware that you had the good fortune to work with him as well. I'm deeply sorry for your great loss.

His passing is a great loss to us here at MIP, too. His ESH was so much appreciated, and I know it came from his heart. It was quite evident that this board meant a lot to him. He once informed me that he especially wanted to reach out to newcomers.

I pray that his loved ones, his wife, children and his dogs, are comforted at this difficult time.

I searched the Net this morning in search of an appropriate poem to share with you all. I found this, written by Dusty Ousley.

Even though he's gone
his memory still remains in our hearts.
His smile and face will never fade.
We think of him as we go on each day.
The good times we remember
and the days spent together
will be in our memories forever.
So when you start to get down
and you really want to cry
just think of the fun times
and don't wonder why.
Just leave it at that
and know he's better now.
He's in a better place.
His heart was right with God.
So RCL we love you
and we miss you so much
but we know you're much happier.
So watch over us and make sure we're okay
and we will see you again someday.

Source: Watch Over Us, Death of a Friend Poem http://www.familyfriendpoems.com/poem/watch-over-us#ixzz1e9Cm3iOq
Family Friend Poems

-- Edited by GailMichelle on Saturday 19th of November 2011 06:05:59 AM

Pushka · ~*Service Worker*~

I am sorry to hear of his passing, thank you for the information. What a terrific soul he was and is. He will be greatly missed.

In support and in gratitude, P

tommyecat · ~*Service Worker*~

I am deeply saddened by the loss of RLC. He was such a wonderful kind man who cared about this board and believed in the alanon program.

Thank you MDK for letting us know about his passing. This board just isnt the same without him.

Love,

Tommye

nyc018 · Senior Member

I am so sorry to hear this sad news. We will miss him a lot.

pineapple · ~*Service Worker*~

I am so sorry to hear this news. RLC was also one of the finest people I've ever known even though we never met in person. I was one of the newcomers he reached out to when I first found this place. We PMed regularly and he was ALWAYS an inspiration to me. Plus, he used to send me recipes : ) He is going to be missed by so many people. I will keep his family in my prayers. Thank you for letting us know MDK, and GailMichele, thank you for the lovely poem. This is a sad, sad day.

nal · Senior Member

I'm so sorry to hear this. I felt like I knew him from reading his posts.

hotrod · ~*Service Worker*~

I am so very saddened to hear abut the loss of Rodney(RLC). He too was my cyber alanon friend . His gentle, kind, compassionate messages and wisdom enriched my life and my being

I will miss him so very much and will hold him in my heart always.

Please let us know if we can do anything and let his family know how well loved he is.

A small tribute from an Unknown author.

"A heart of gold stopped beating

Two shinning eyes at rest

God broke our hearts to prove

He only takes the best'

-- Edited by hotrod on Saturday 19th of November 2011 09:50:02 AM

Jennifer · ~*Service Worker*~

Thank you Melissa. I will miss RLC's wisdom and presence here. My thoughts and prayers are with his family anf friends.

Jen

Jerry F · ~*Service Worker*~

Mahalo Melissa...I can hear his voice and he has passed into the spirit family I have. He cared for you deeply and for the MIP family. He knew how to love unconditionally. He leaves that now for us to also continue with each other and with the new comers and the alcoholic. HP did a great work when he brought Rod into my life. I am forever grateful. ((((hugs)))) smile

Carry on RLC...

pinkchip · ~*Service Worker*~

Wow. This is a shock. He was really awesome. One of my favorite people on MIP for sure. Rest in peace RLC :(

bud · ~*Service Worker*~

(((Melissa))))

Thank you for letting MIP know- I'm truly sorry for your and our loss- he was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed.

youfoundme · ~*Service Worker*~

I am so saddened by this. He was a wonderful man and always an encouraging voice to me.

Doozy · Senior Member

Rlc (rodney) has been such a positive, welcoming source of experience, strength and hope here. He will really be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends in this sudden loss. God bless you rlc!

Mattie · ~*Service Worker*~

This is a terrible shock. I learned so much from his posts. He was a treasure. Thank you for letting us know.

Hoot Nanny · ~*Service Worker*~

MDK: thanks for telling us about him. I really don't remember much about him but I do remember him posting. I am so sorry for you & all of us who will miss him here.

Kathleen

orchidlover · ~*Service Worker*~

I am very sorry to hear that. Thank you so much for letting us know.

Maresie.

Breakingfree · ~*Service Worker*~

RLC you will be greatly missed, RIP! His wisdom and love was amazing. I am sending love and support to his loved ones at this time. Sending everyone love and support on your journey!

MDK · Veteran Member

I can't tell you how much all your thoughts and prayers touch me. I will carry these message to his family and his alanon family. He was the best in all of us and I know we will miss him.

Temple · ~*Service Worker*~

Rest in Peace, Dear RLC--

You were so kind and supportive to me when I was a Newbie.
It always made me smile when I saw Charlie Brown on the board.

I'll miss you,
Temple

likemyheart · ~*Service Worker*~

I have always loved and identified with Charlie Brown, my favorite cartoon character - after I joined this board it had even more special meaning to me because of RLC's involvment in the board - Today is a sad day, my heart has joined the thousands.

John · ~*Service Worker*~

Oh my God!! I am absolutely in shock, like this whole thread is surreal!

I just spoke to him less than a week ago! He was always a touchstone that I ran things by from time to time related to MIP, and even personal stuff!

Just a few days ago, I got a care box from him for the recovery homes, which he sent pretty much monthly!

MDK, please call me so we can talk for a few minutes, please?

I am just blown away by this, and need to talk to someone who knew him for a few minutes.

John

ythannah · Senior Member

Wow, this is a shock... I'm so sorry to hear this. I've always enjoyed his posts and I've gleaned a lot of wisdom from what he shared. My condolences to his family.

Thank you for passing on the news.

maryjane · ~*Service Worker*~

Awww.... I only knew him through this site, but he was always so real and smart and compassionate. RIP.

Ness · ~*Service Worker*~

So saddened to hear this.

Ness

tommyecat · ~*Service Worker*~

MDK,

It still doesnt seem very real that he is gone. I have come back to this very post for comfort and support. I reread some of the letters he sent to me. He was a kind human being for which I am so grateful to have know through this forum. I do so hope you are able to attend the funeral. I am quite sure he has many friends that adore and respect him as I have.

In loving memory of Rodney,

Tommye

Lindaoakford · ~*Service Worker*~

What a shock
He PM'd me on occassion also and he was such a wonderful person.... his words were like a big hug... I am actually crying now....
He is now a person I will talk to when I am in need of support and I know he can give me a spiritual cuddle... his wonderful energy is part of our universal power that we can still all draw on... we just have to listen more carefully.... I believe what we hear will be worth listening for.

Please send on our thoughts to his family. I don't know if he was ill or if this was suddenly unexpected but either way... our thoughts are with them all.. and you.. thanks for letting us know.

lacewing · Veteran Member

RLC - Has Passed Away - please read

canadianguy · ~*Service Worker*~

Wow... this is tragic news for sure.... So sorry to hear of this..... Like many others have mentioned, I counted Rodney as one of my "cyber" friends.... He will definitely be missed....

Tom

Debilyn · ~*Service Worker*~

I did not see this till just now! It is a total shock.

I always remembered him by his humor. His willingness to help. I was so pleased he was a mod.

Surely will miss him.

I remember him for: Well would you leave a monkey to watch over a banana truck?

tears, heavy heart, debilyn

canadianguy · ~*Service Worker*~

I just looked up Rodney's last post on MIP, and smiled.... Like most of the shares he offered over his years on here, it was heartfelt, compassionate, and empathetic..... Rodney, as you look down on us from above, please know that you will be missed...

T

Here is the post, from 6 days ago, to the "Alateen" post by AMills.... another gem from an MIP gem.....

"Two years ago I was able to attend an Alateen meeting at Area Assembly. The children amazed me in how they dealt with what they are forced to go through. They had complete acceptance. I didn't hear a single pity party, but my heart went out for all of them. One 16 year old girl said for the last two years she had the responsibility of taking care of her two younger sisters, doing the cooking and cleaning, grocery shopping, making sure everyone's homework was done including her own, and mentioned she didn't know who her Daddy was................. I remember thinking after the meeting that sometimes my problems are nothing more than a hurt finger, while others problems, including the teens at that meeting could be compared to having my arm cut off. HUGS, RLC"

Breakingfree · ~*Service Worker*~

I was reading past pm's between us when I was new to MIP and he was a kind of fatherly figure for me and this meant so much to me, on March 8th 2011 he wrote this on my board: I just read your Biography filled with honesty, acceptance, strength, and commitment. It's easy to pick a winner out of the crowd !! HUGS, RLC

It meant so much to me that he thought highly of me and it helped me trudge along back then.

He is and will continue to be missed! I agree with Tom he was so empathetic, compassionate and spoke from the heart, a true MIP gem indeed!

-- Edited by Breakingfree on Monday 21st of November 2011 09:46:31 PM

likemyheart · ~*Service Worker*~

On today's bus ride home, "my" kids were using the charlie brown theme in their games, not sure why it was their song of the day, but I drove along thinking of RLC - things like that are like getting a hug - nice reminder of him. Be well Rodney!

Green Eyes · ~*Service Worker*~

Candlelight Vigil

Katy · ~*Service Worker*~

Dear Melissa,

I am so very sad to read about RLC'S sudden passing, he was such a kind and gentle person that shone very brightly in this life, please take comfort in knowing, that he will be greatly missed here on mip and in the many anonamous lives he touched, thinking of RLC and all of his beloved family and friends at this time.

much love

Katy

x

White Rabbit · ~*Service Worker*~

I haven't been around much lately and I am just seeing this. I'm so very saddened by the news of RLC's passing. He was such a wonderful person and I learned so much from him. I feel that my life is richer because I knew him.

Prayers to RLC's friends and family.

wp · ~*Service Worker*~

My heart skipped a beat too when I saw this post. Only a few days ago he brought me a chuckle, and he has been one of those rare members here who always offered wisdom and so many good attitudes. Bless his heart. RLC will be greatly missed.

pw

david62 · ~*Service Worker*~

Wow. cry I have been away from the computer for a few days...been sick. Rest in peace brother. You will be missed.

MDK · Veteran Member

I put a pic of Rodney on my profile so this is the person that we all loved.

The material presented here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method to exchange information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal level.

"He is either gonna drink, or he won't.... what are YOU gonna do?"

"He is either gonna drink, or he won't.... what are YOU gonna do?"