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I spent some time w/ my MOM before I got on this computer. She wanted me to help her find my step-father's grave site & I complied. It was a little difficult to find but we found it. This is actually not morbid at all--I actually didn't mind the whole scenario.
Things go well w/ her sometimes that I can actually feel comfortable w/ her. She is actually a very cool person when she is not trying to control my every move. I have confidence that if I don't get too frustrated w/ her we can really get along.
Today is a good day! The weather is agreeing w/ me! I love it! It is actually a nice FALL day here! The calendar is not wrong nor is the outlook on the weather. I am so excited about getting out & walking w/ my H today. He is trying to lose weight after seeing the doc--he has diabetes & has gained some weight recently but is determined to cut out some of the "bad" foods he eats. He is hoping that he will lose 10+ pounds so his blood sugars will come down. I am not totally convinced that it will be easy for him but he does have a plan to bring in wood, maybe chop a little here & there. Every bit of excercise will help I think.
I am staying w/in a good range of weight myself. I have lost about 35 pounds & kept it off for 5 years now. Just patting myself on the back a little. Something positive. I am trying to stay there.
Way to go on the weight loss that is a goal for me this next year. I have mentioned before i used to work at a funeral home and there is a cemetery attached to it so I did a lot of look up. It's always interesting to hear people talk family. Lots of people doing genealogy, I don't think it's morbid. We try and put something out for my AH's s/dad and his 2 sets of grandparents.
So glad you are finding the positive in dealing with your mom. LOL .. how about I send mine to you?? She's suppose to come for a visit in April I kind of feel like I will be better able to cope with her during that time. Kids birthdays and easter it will be lots of fun. Plus I will have enough to keep me busy without obsessing over her being here.
Hugs P :)
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Stepping onto a brand-new path is difficult, but not more difficult than remaining in a situation, which is not nurturing to the whole woman.- Maya Angelo
