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Tattyhead


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Just wanted to let you know my husband of 39 + years died peacefully in his sleep at 5 O'clock this morning - (British time). The last 5 years may have been a nightmare but he was the love of my life and we had so many happy years before the drink took hold.

Thank you for all your thoughts and prayers - you will never know how much they have menat to me.

Tish xxx



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I am so sorry for your loss tatty . Thinking of you today   Louise



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So sorry for your loss Tish.... here's hoping Stephen has finally found his peace.

 

Take care

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(((Tish)))

So sorry.  Hold tightly to all the good memories. 

 

Christy



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Oh (((tatty))), I'm so, so sorry. I hope all the good memories will be some comfort for you.

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tish I am truly sad for you and yours and him. Of course you loved him! It does not matter what the disease did. We remember the soul we loved and enjoyed.

I completely relate. We here will understand believe me. People who don't have Al Anon just don't get that we sometimes just cannot leave them.they aren't like a rock in your shoe you can take out and throw away.

Hope you can take naps, let that fog protect you. soak in all the hugs you can. never hold back those tears. Believe me, right now you are raw, you are the most beautiful you have ever been. You are completely YOU. You were there for him.

Come here and let it out. giving you a warm easy hug and holden you. debilyn



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I am so sorry for your loss. I was wondering how things were going, thank you for letting us know. HUGS! Take care of you... HUGS again

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Tish,

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.    I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers in this difficult time. 

In support,

Tommye



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Tatty,

Hugs, condolences to your family during this difficult time. Sending love and support to you and your family.

Hugs, P

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Dear Tattyhead, I HEAR your heart.  I understand.  Please accept my heartfelt condolences.

Love, Otie



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((Tatty)) You're in my prayers.

Jen

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((Tish)),

Sending more thoughts and prayers.  I am so sorry for your loss.

Nancy



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(((Tish))) I'm so sorry for your loss.  May your husband rest in peace and may the memories of the good times be a comfort to you. Peace to you Tish.



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(((Tish)))

Condolences to you Tish. Hold to the many happy memories and and know HP is holding you in his arms. Your in my thoughts and prayers.

HUGS,
RLC

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(((((Tish & family)))))

Sincerest condolences.

Love

Ness x



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Deepest condolences.

Keri

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Sending you love and support Tish!

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Oh, Tish, I am so very sorry for your loss. Prayers, friend.


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I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you find peace and comfort with loving memories. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

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(((Tattyhead)))

I extend my most heartfelt condolences.  I hope you are able to hold onto your happiest memories with him.  May you feel your HP deeply at this time.



-- Edited by GailMichelle on Friday 12th of August 2011 12:29:38 PM

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My prayers are with you at this very difficult time.

Maresie.



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Tattyhead: I am so sorry to hear about your loss; no matter what you still loved him. That says a lot! I hope you can find peace.

Take care of you & God will take care of the rest.

I hope I don't sound insensitive; just trying to comfort you.

Kathleen



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jitsuka


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Really sorry to hear that :(

I'm in the UK if you want to PM / have a natter.

Keep strong.

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odalis


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Sorry for your loss. (((HUGS))))

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I am so sorry for your loss. all my condolences Tish.

 



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So, so sorry Tish,

Remember the good times.....

Lots of Hugs, Bettina

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Tattyhead


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Thank you all so much. This board, the chat room and all of you have helped to keep me going over the last couple of years - I honestly do not know what I would have done without you.

Again - heartfelt thanks.

Love, Tish xxx



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Tish,

Sending you my sincere condolences. Hawaii



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Doozy


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So sorry for your loss Tish. I hope you find lots of comfort in the good memories.



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Samsgram


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So sorry for your loss Tish. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Gentle Hugs,
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Rosanne Averill
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So sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you find peace in your HP and keep coming back to this site.

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Rocky38


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Dear Tish,

I think of you often and sign in every now and then to see how you're doing.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

My AH's name was Stephen as well.

I hope the journey ahead is held up by loving memories and the knowledge that Stephen's HP has brought him to rest.

I also pray that you will wrap you and your son in the love of the good people in these and other rooms of Al-Anon.

Take care my friend, Rocky



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