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Really pleased to announce that we have a new Board Moderator, effective immediately..... RLC (Rodney) has agreed to become a Moderator, and I am thrilled to have the help. He has been a valuable member of our family for a long time on MIP, and will be a valuable addition to our group. When I look at the three qualities (listed below), I definitely think Rodney is an excellent choice. He will be paid the same lofty salary as all of us for this position ($0), so his accepting this role is greatly appreciated.
Please welcome him and involve him as you would me or any of the other Moderators.
Tom
p.s. For those wondering, I put together what I believe to be the primary functions of the position.
Duties of a Board Moderator:
1. Edit/Delete posts as required - Most of my edits would be for aggressive language - i.e. swearing, etc - this is important as we need to maintain MIP as a "safe place" for so many who are scared and possibly timid when they arrive here... Other reasons for edits would be content, if they are 'over the top' with advice giving, religious content, copyright concerns, or inappropriate or stuff not applicable to recovery in any way... This one is a hangup for some, as perhaps it would be easier with formal 'black and white' rules around this, but our reality is that very little of our world is truly black & white only, and we have to use our common sense and discretion. Note that I get at least as many PM's from others advising me of posts to "take a look at", as I find myself, as I am a fairly regular reader, but find that it is almost impossible to read every post, per se.... Normal practice is for me to advise people when/if I have deleted and/or edited their posts, and 99% of the time people understand and are completely reasonable about it... I don't extend the same courtesy for the very occasional time where somebody is just on here trying to give others grief, but I can literally count the number of those incidents on one hand, in the five or so years I have been doing this...
1a. Communicate with other Moderators - this one is sort of a natural add-on to #1 above, but in order to maintain some sort of consistency, it really helps when the Mods talk to each other, and keep each other abreast of any incidents and/or folks to be aware of on the board, etc.
2. Liase with John - this role is less relevant, but as a moderator I am often times the first person that members ask site related questions, re: security, chat room, etc... I don't tend to know many answers to these questions, and typically don't have the "power" (knowledge OR technical approval) to change things for them, but I do often PM with John and he can resolve most of the issues.
Stepping onto a brand-new path is difficult, but not more difficult than remaining in a situation, which is not nurturing to the whole woman.- Maya Angelo
I am strong in the broken places. ~ Unknown
All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another! ~ Anatole France
Arhhhhhhhhhh thats great news, we have some cracking male mipsters on here, I get great insight from male shares, they remind me what is important in life and what qualities to look for in fabulous people!
Many times I have read your replies and posts - and I have to say, there is no recollection of NOT walking away with something to add to my Toolbox and Food for Thought. Your recovery is inspiring and so hopeful to myself and to so many others. Glad to have you continually coming back!
Thanks for all you do!
lacewing ~!~
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...He compared his weathered hand to mine and said, ... GROWTH OF THE MIND AND HEART are the best offers you can give.my Grandfather (Keeper of Stories), to me