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buick23


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I ended the relationship with my bf who had been sober/dry from alcohol for 4 years now. He started using drugs and acting crazy. I am glad its over but sad. Guess nothing is for sure.

I will spare the details. Otherwise I would have to write a book.

buick



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knowmadic


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Hi, Buick.  I'm sorry to hear you are hurting...sometimes the best choices are the hardest...I am going through separation with my AH, so I understand where you are coming from.  It gets easier and easier each day for me, but it is a loss nonetheles...sending you lots of healing thoughts and strength and tons of courage! 

best,
sharyn


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pinkchip


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Right now it probably hurts too much to share. Later on, the knowledge is going to really help someone else going through it. Sorry for the loss :(

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Dear Buick
Thanks for sharing  Please stay close to program.  One Day at a Time, with the Focus on Yourself, and HP by your side you will be filled with the courge, seerenity and wisdom to find the peace and life you deserve.

Remember this is all a process.



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Jennifer


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((Buick))

I am sorry for the sadness you are experiencing right now. You are right, not much in life is guaranteed to be a sure thing. But working our programs, on ourselves, and talking to HP has pretty good odds of being a great experience. Keep using your tools to pull through. You're in my thoughts.

Jen

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Debilyn


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Oh my friend, I feel for you! I hope you do come and write a book if you need too! That is why we are all here! You always read my long stuff and gave me wonderful feedback.

So sad this has happened. Such a horrible illness.

PLEASE stick with us!!!! Always here for you! love,debilyn

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abbyal


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Hello again , I am sorry it has come to this ,you can give yourself some credit here you went to your meetings  , you tried .. there is a page in our literature that says that love cannot survive with out justice . One person cannot save a relationship , if we cant get what were willing to give eventually it will die .
Louise  (and I know you really did try biggrin )

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Lala03044


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PhotobucketAm sorry for your loss.

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((((( Buick ))))) take all the time you need to heal your heart.  We are here for you, always.

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buick23


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Thank you everyone for your support. I'm doing so much better now. Thx Abby. I did try. Hes still harrassing me and stalking me but I'm doing the best I can. He acts crazy because he's on drugs. I'm glad I have alanon. I've been working 2 jobs so I don't have to worry about needing someone to help with bills. He didn't help much anyway. Being single is great. Never thought it would be.

buick

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