The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
i am brand new to this site. also brand new to al anon.i have been trying to get to an on line al anon meeting but my computer is not really co-operating.i have been married to a heavy drinker for 20 years and just separated in february 2010. i have 3 children 2 of whom are drinking heavily.i just came across the 12 steps program and al anon about 2 weeks ago.there is no metting where i live. i would really like to do the 12 steps.looking forward to hearing from anyone out there who can help me as i start this journey.
I am glad you have reached out and discovered 12 step programs. I have been a member of alanon for over 25 years and truly believe it has saved my sanity and life many times.
Alanon believes that alcoholism is a disease that you did not cause, cannot control and cannot cure. Living with this disease causes all around it to become ill and need help. This Board and alanon offers that help.
You are not alone and what you shared sounds very familar to how I behaved before I walked thru the doors of alanon and found new tools to live my life.
It is important to break the isolation. Face to Face meetings are held in every community.
And placing your cursor over about us in the upper left of the screen, 3 more pull downs open. One of these is information for the newcomer, and the second is Al-Anon for you; both have good information.
We also have on line meetings here 2 xs a day and a chat room open 24/7
Please keep coming back
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hanks for repling.Its nice to know someone is out there and that the 12 steps works. No Al Anon meetings in Lusaka, Zambia, Africa where I am right now to the best of my knowledge. Hope I can get support on line from MIP.
You are not alone many of us have walked and still walk the same path you are on. The differance is we have learned the tools we need to just let them go and help ourselves step outside the box.
I know only too well how painful it is to watch someone we love slowly killing themselves day by day.
Now you can get help for you, you know have a place to come and let out all the hectic bull crap from your day.
So sorry that there are no meetings in your part of the world. Sometimes members find help at open AA metings. So possibly you could search them out.
In the meantime literature can surely help!!! Here is a web site that will give some great alanon literature to start your journey.
World Service Organization is the Service Arm of Alanon Family Groups They have a Web Site with some great literature One is the Steps the other is on detachment and the other is the BOOKLET"JUST FOR TODAY" my favorite the web address is
Thanks for the encouragement. Ijust attended my very first Al Anon meeting ever on line on your site and it was fantastic. The meeting was starting 10 minutes after I logged on so that was great. I will keep attending meetings on line and try and get some literature in. There is someone who has just started a womans group kind of associated with AA and they are running a 12 step program so I hope I will get some help there too.
Aloha Meg T...you are not alone whenever you can hook up with MIP. We're open pretty much 24/7. Look for the literature link for Al-Anon literature and get as much as you can so that you can learn about the disease and you. Click on to afgwso.org and check out the monthly "Forum" magazine. It's very helpful with sharings from around the globe and 22 dollars US a year including mailing.
Welcome to this incredible resource. I am so glad you are here. I do believe getting all the things in place to get into a meeting and into the chat room is a trial by error. Nevertheless it is worth the effort. If you have a chance get a hold of the book Getting them Sober.