The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Thank you John for your invitation, the timing was very good. I am doing well since I posted the last time. It does not mean that life is perfect of course, it means that my coping skills have become better. I am still working on them and as long as I live, I am learning to live.
Last Friday, my sponsor whom I have had for the last seven years, decided to end our relationship. It was not on her own, though I felt that the connection had changed, and so did she. I was the one to first talk to her about my feeling, telling her that I had the impression that she was not implying herself in our conversation. Finally, she agreed, telling me that she was at the stage where she only wanted to talk about fun things. I also sponsor people, I know when they call me that it is to talk about what is bothering them. One thing sure......she has not been on my path without my learning a lot about myself. The HP is not distracted, everything happens, because it needs to happen, to create some change, that is often to move forward, to learn to use my own wings. Thank you for your attention, if you are a new member, know that to express ideas is to our advantage as well as it help other who are living through a similiar situation. The slogan which says....."It starts by me" The journey lasts a life time, life goes on, and for that I am greatful. Thank you to all the members whom I am looking forward to exchanging ideas with. Have a nice day!