The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
She asked what to do with just started dateing a a and I said i would tell any one run and not get involved .I know that is my opion but she didnt say she was in love with him or married to him she said she just started seeing for about a week so that was just my opion of it cause as you know it is alot of heathache to be in love with a a with a program. I thought it was a careing thing I said but again I rememinded that I dont think like most even in alanon and until i can get to a point to watch what I say or not say nothing so I think for now any ways it best for me not post if I chose to read or come on line meetings but I will slack on that too .
Jo honestly I dont know if i will ever advice any one to get involved with a a if they can walk away easily now and I will never condon drunk drveing and these subjects get me in trouble right now i am faceing some hard stuff and accepting my self for who i am and that is enough stress in my life i dont need to be corrected every time i come to a post or on line meeting so thanks for letting me know i need to jsut be quiet for while i will come back when i can see things as you all do or i can learn some way to communicate better.
wow. just seconds ago i read your amends and posted a reply.
dori. now i will make amends to you. i by no means meant to scare you off or away from this board. you have every right to be here and to continue coming. i apologize for hurting your feelings. i know you are very sensitive to certain issues. i promise to be sensitive to that in the future.
i am always sensitive to the new member cause i remember what that felt like. afraid to say the wrong thing, afraid i didn't belong, afraid of today, tomorrow and yesterday........... i worry that they will read something too harsh and be scared away. I remember you when you first came to these rooms.......and i always answered your posts cause they moved me so deeply. i felt for you and prayed for you. i have grown to love you and care for you. it was not a personal attack. but i am very sorry it hurt you.
I love you thank you yes I was hurt cause i really just wanted her not to go through all the hurt i been though is all thanks again my recovery i gotta sometimes fight for it that is ok.
