Found out today that the A left the rehab a couple of days ago.  His mom was fuzzy on the details as to why, etc.  I just got this strange text from him tonight that said "Got any advice for a new local?"  I was picking up my child from his mom's after my church class and showed it to her.  She said maybe because he found a place to live?  I said oh, huh.  She said he moves in at the end of week.  I said is he still in treatment.  She said no.  I said oh, thought it would end Thursday- 28 days.  She just said hmmm...think he's been out a couple of days- staying in a hotel.  Anyway, I sent him a text back asking him to explain the one he sent me.  He said explain what.  I said "Maybe you didn't mean to send me the new local text."  He said he didn't.  My mind went in a hundred directions.  The distance in our communication- the lack of calls, his leaving treatment early, the hotel room, etc.  I wanted to ask him if he was okay.  I wanted to ask his mom for details, call his sister-in-law, but today I am going to mind my own business and release him to his Higher Power who loves him certainly more and better than me(even though my obsessive mind can't conceive that any one loves him more than me).  Today I love him, respect him and his choices, and let him go with prayers.  God grant me peace and strength.