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I am almost 2 months out now from having had the check stolen. There is no sign of a replacement check. I can either let this issue consume me (which it certainly has) or detach detach and then detach some more. Of course I want it to be anything but it is.
I don't believe I actually have a choice if I want to be healthy but I am convinced if I cry enough and scream enough the check will magically appear out of nowhere and I won't have to stand on my head to try to get a replacement. I'm close to acceptance but I'm still a hold out to be a victim.
"I don't believe I actually have a choice if I want to be healthy but I am convinced if I cry enough and scream enough the check will magically appear out of nowhere and I won't have to stand on my head to try to get a replacement. I'm close to acceptance but I'm still a hold out to be a victim." LOL
I've been taught that when you start to treat it with humor its a sign that acceptance is standing right behind you. God you've battle this one soooo hard to finally have reach surrender first before the check.
Maresie, I don't know the whole story about this, but just from what I read I hope you can get a resolution soon. I had my ID stolen some years ago by a Nigerian fraud ring, and it was truly a nightmare. I totally understand the feeling of wanting to detach! I would like to think the jerks that were behind this ran for their lives because they heard me screaming, LOL!!
