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shellyj123


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Woke up this am DETERMINED to put my focus back on me and get out of the rut I have been in.
Hit my dailys hard, always grateful that I had the extra money to buy them as they are a gift in each and every way, everyday. 
Came into the office and the first thing I did was come here and read.....always the best way to start a day, listening to others.
I have no doubts or illusions that this will be hard, and a challenge as I can barely keep my eyes open anymore past 8-lol, but whatever it takes I am going to give it all I can, each day.
I plan to use the next 90 days to refocus and rebuild and find my way back to Serenity Park........Anyone looking for something to do can light the way:)

love and peace
shelly

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hotrod


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Good Morning Shelly,

Sounds like a great plan.  I have a sponsee who is doing the same at the moment.  

Daily reading of the literature, gratitude lists, telephone calls and meetings do help me to stay on track.

Good Luck



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carolinagirl


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LOL this sounds familiar... hmmmm
I have been on the 90 day thing for about 25 days and have had some back slides and I think the most important thing I have learned is....

Stay focused on the goals (make sure you have definite goals to reach in the 90 days)
Everything in moderation - don't beat yourself up if you don't always live up to your own expectations of yourself in the 90 days.
Try to be in the moment all the time - this is VERY hard for me!!! The past and the future are always issues for me... The only time I want to be in the future is when I'm visualizing reaching my goal that I set out 90 days.
Read self improvement materials every day.

Conclusion thus far. I don't think I'm going to stop this in 90 days I think it will be ongoing. Also, turning up the music really loud, going to the exercise room or on walks is VERY refreshing and keeps me sane - may work for you too...

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debilyn


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(o:  You can do this!  Maybe think of it as a time to just sit back, relax and feel at home, safe and you only have to be there.

Myself I have never been embarrased if I had to bring a  pillow or my own chair, whatever to be comfortable where ever I went. My matra was always, just get yourself through the door.

You are not alone, my spirit will be with ya! If you feel someone kicking your chair it is me!

love,debilyn

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