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Tomorrow will be two weeks since my husband moved out. HURRAY! Today is day two of his at home detox. He called me a few times and tried to use me as a punching bag, but guess what....he missed...he never landed those punches...i'm too quick you see...i saw them coming and i got out of the way. Let go, let God and lets progress!
I have a story about the day my husband decided he didn't want a gun. He had been talking about getting a gun and I couldn't say anything because if I had objected, he would have immediately bought it! So I just let him think about it and procrastinate. Then one day we had a chance to go target practicing and he discovered I was a better shot than him!!!
That is the day he stopped talking about getting a gun!
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Serenity is not freedom from the storm but peace within the storm.
SK- That is too funny. My dad decided he hated horses after my mom bought him a horse that he was unable to handle, but she could. He's not an A, but sometimes I wonder.
In recovery,
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~Jen~
"When you come to the edge of all you know you must believe in one of two things... there will be earth on which to stand or you will be given wings." ~Unknown
I went 6 months plus in not answering the calls from the ex A. Then he gave up. Six months was way too long to endure that. Nevertheless I stuck to my guns and I have no dealings with him at all now.