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Went to SIL's house just one of thoes feelings brought her one of our special treat coffee's... Well her hubby (just out of rehab) was on a rampage.... wont get into it... Helpped her just by being there.
So any how it was time to get home and get the kiddies to bed and I come home to a verrrrryyyyy drunk hubby driving a bobcat. OMG!!! So I calmly told him that a person in his condition should not be driving heavy equiptment. I went and got the mail and got back home and there he was with this huge ass devil grin still driving it!!!!!!!!!! So I calmly backed the truck out of the drive way and left... I parked down the road wondering what the heck should I do... then he calls MAD were do you think you are going you are not ALLOWED to leave. So I just told him that if he was going to continue to try to provoke a fight with me that I was not comming home especially with my kids. I settled down and told the kids that we were going home and to go stait to their rooms as we are going to Calaway park tomorrow and their dad is not going to ruien it for them!!!
Anyhoo the kids are in bed and I was trying to get on this site which was not working:or on to chat and he is telling me that he spent the evening with his dads X stripper girlfriend and that she is comming to our house to tint the big windows.GRRR Which normally wouldn't bother me but this woman who is not much older than I has been after him and calling him ever since his dad passed away. You see AH's dad was I guess you could say sugar daddy. She was only with him for money and a good time spending his money. I don't want this woman in my house!! I don't want her to know where I live!!! She must need a replacement and figures like father like son.
What ever if she wants him she can have him!!! really why should I care it would just give me the reason I need to leave! because what the heck am I doing I don't even know anymore.
As for the intervention thing well I don't think that it will work AH has no consequences to his actions or behavior he puts absolutly everything on the company it is his enabaler!! I can't take that away or change the company things around so that he has to have responsibility for money or how he pays for his drinking anything, I have nothing to do with the company....
Sil and I talked and decuided that her AH and my AH should move in together LOL (they hate! each other) and her and I should live together LOL. My AH hates hers because he is an addict HELLO so is he!!! Same s@#@ differnt pile!
Well now I am a little less PO'd I am done thanks for letting me vent!
The kids and I had a wonderful time. There is nothing more fufilling than to see your children truely happy and smiling all day! Their smiles make me so happy.
still driving it!!!!!!!!!!
So I calmly backed the truck out of the drive way and left... I parked down the road wondering what the heck should I do... then he calls MAD were do you think you are going you are not ALLOWED to leave
. So I just told him that if he was going to continue to try to provoke a fight with me that I was not comming home especially with my kids. I settled down and told the kids that we were going home and to go stait to their rooms as we are going to Calaway park tomorrow and their dad is not going to ruien it for them!!!
or on to chat and he is telling me that he spent the evening with his dads X stripper girlfriend and that she is comming to our house to tint the big windows.GRRR 
Which normally wouldn't bother me but this woman who is not much older than I has been after him and calling him ever since his dad passed away. You see AH's dad was I guess you could say sugar daddy. She was only with him for money and a good time spending his money. I don't want this woman in my house!! I don't want her to know where I live!!! She must need a replacement and figures like father like son.
I don't even know anymore. 
