The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
My life with the ex A was completely chaotic. He had his own parade of charactors who also had their chaos. Every day was one long nightmare and I got used to dreading every moment.
Right now I am in the place of working to simplify everything. Of course I want it all done tomorrow. I'm going to my storage unit this week to start work and I'm no longer dreading it. I see it as a challenge rather than a burden.
I'm moving on from the chaos and the dread to a place I don't know yet but I know its going to be infinitely better.
Maresie...looks like your practicing self care...good for you. Even though I new to all of this I learn a little more each day...now I have to learn how to put them in to action just as you are doing.