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My ex used to have this cloth like bracelet he wore all the time that simply had the word THINKon it.....I would love to find one for myself as I could use the constant reminder but haven't been able to locate any online and will not call and ask where he got his...
Does anyone know where I can find one of these at???
Many thanks shelly
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Put down the magnifying glass and pick up the mirror!
Forget the THINK braclet ,way too much already . A cheaper way to to do this is put an elastic band on your wrist and when ever u get to asking * why * or are tempted to snoop on exs face book entries , snap it on your wrist , it hurts trust me and u may learn to not cause yourself anymore pain . Louise
I avoid stuff that reminds me of my exAH. I avoid creating an attachment. I have made the decision, and I am aware, I no longer desire an attachment to him.
-- Edited by glad lee on Friday 10th of July 2009 12:54:21 PM
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The prayer isn't for Higher Power to change our lives, but rather to change us.
I wear my LIVESTRONG bracelet for so many reasons. Not just to honor cancer patients. For me the sentiment says it all. When I get into trouble, I tend to rub it. Good thing it's made out of rubber! Find something that has real meaning to you and go from there. I might have to add the rubber band, so I can snap myself out of moods. Love and blessings to you and your family.
Live strong, Karilynn & Pipers Kitty
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I just put in think bracelet and came up with a bunch of them!
I am sure a craft store would be able to help you to know how to make one.
You can get letters of all kinds in beads. Also there are these black bracelets that look like a belt you can put these st. silver letters on it I have one that says debilynpiglady. hgs
Well actually, prior to posting this-lol, I don't think it would have reminded me of him so much at all-I just loved the whole idea of the constant reminder to stop and THINK before I react, nad after yesterday I thought it might help me to catch myself prior to screwing up-lol..........sometimes as you all know:) I am not that good at that...
Now I'm going to have to come up with something else............any ideas.........I saw online where you can get them made with anything you want on them-kinda like the Livestrong kind........
Shelly
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Put down the magnifying glass and pick up the mirror!
I bought myself a ring. To me it is a symbol of my new life, my freedom, my strength. I spent like 40 bucks, but I had planned to do it for a very long time. And everytime I wear it, I just feel good like it is something I did for me. A symbol of my love for me.
I totally agree with the others that wearing something so close to what your ex had isn't the best idea...and the message it could send to him if he were to see it or be told, well, he already has ego issues...that could make his head explode (LOL!!)