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Post Info TOPIC: Working with the positive in front.


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Working with the positive in front.


My sponsor who has never ever judged me or "should" me down suggested I keep the positive at the front of my life.  Lately as you all know I have lost weight and gone all out to get healthy. As someone who was pretty much lethargic for me to exercise at all is incredible.  I walk 10,000 steps a day every day whatever is going on in my life and its made a huge difference. To get back to my sponsor, I decided to take her suggestion (rather than question it or resent it as I used to so religiously).  So right now with the positive at the forefront I can go to my storage (a task I have put off for two years) as I have to get smaller clothes as I have dropped a size or two!  What a great achievement to go from dread to joy!  I can put the joy into making the dreaded much less significant.  All from one simple suggestion and working on it rather than doing it my way!

Maresie.

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Maresie,

Congratulations on taking care of your health!

I was going to say well bless your skinny little hide, and then realized that your dropping dress sizes is the by-product of taking care of yourself, not the be all and end all.

How I envy you. I feel so good when I am losing weight and hope I get to that stage (because of taking better care of myself) very soon.

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Way to go girl! Sounds like your program is working for you. Keep it up and congratulations on the weight loss. I am still lethargic myself. 10,000 steps that is great. "Smaller clothes" has such a nice ring to it. I need to keep telling myself that and see if it helps to motivate me. I lack motivation so much, it is sad. But good for you and I so happy you are keeping the positive in front that's not always easy either.

Yours in recovery,
wildthang86

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What an inspiring post Maresie. 

I haven't worked out in over 6 months.  I've put on about 18 pounds, but MENTALLY it's been much worse. Just today, I went to the gym.  I only went for 45 minutes but felt great doing it.  It's so weird how that mind, body, soul, thing really works isn't it?

 



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Maresie
Great news and I am happy for you. 
Thanks for reminding me of that powerful tool.
I am trying to stop smoking and need to be reminded of some of the tools I have forgotten because I am obsessing over Cigs.

Your ESH is inspiring.

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Maresie,

You go girl!!!!!!   Congrats, have fun going thru the skinny clothes...

Andrea

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Keep at it! It can only get better and better. Taking care of you.

In support,
Nancy

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good for you, you taking care of you works

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