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what am I doing for me today???


TODAY

i went garage saling and got some toys for the dogs and a good book for me
i cleaned up my house and did the wash
i am getting my resume out so i can leave this control freak job
i am eating more alkyline foods to help my inflamations in wrists and help my back
i will soak in the tub tonight w/candles and just BE


what are you doing for you today???

-- Edited by rosielightshines on Saturday 13th of June 2009 03:25:54 PM

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Rosie in recovery one day at a time


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i just treated me to a great dinner buffet thing at my favorite chinease restaurant

oysters on the half shell till i was stuffed
shrimp galore

AND all the melons, grapes and fruits that i could handle

gotta go walk some of this off now......yummmm it was great---didn't need anyone to take me, i took myself and ENJOYED the meal

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What I did for myself today:
1.  Went shopping 
2.  Talked on phone to best friend
3.  Cooking, which I love to do!!!!
4.  Copied tons of pictures from camera to CD!!!!!!
5.  Put clean linen on beds!!!!


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What I did for me today:
-Sat and talked with girlfriends and drank coffee when I got to work today.
-made my favorite smoothie for lunch
-and worked out

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Rosie, Ive never gone to eat by myself before...you're an inspiration, I may do it sometime and think of you!!

Today, for me, i too went garage saling...love it!
took down some old decor that I don't want/need anymore to straighten things up
cleaned my shed
had a fire, burned some confidentials
heading to the bath soonbiggrin

Rora

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Rora wrote:

Rosie, Ive never gone to eat by myself before...you're an inspiration, I may do it sometime and think of you!!

Today, for me, i too went garage saling...love it!




Well there was no arguing at the table....no belching.....no stealing my fruit from my plate and peace and quiet.......

 

so you like g/saling too???  yea, believe it or not, it was my "quick fix" to stuff I was not dealing with...i was addicted to it....HAD to go....would buy just any ole crap and come home and be ashamed  like "why did i buy this???".....now?? w/recovery, i am a diferent  "shopper"....i get what i need.....stuff for the dogs so they don't chew my stuff.....i get stuff i can come home with and say "yea, i needed that and what a deal i got".......i also know what i can afford to spend and stay w/in the limits......it is not an addiction for me anymore....if i cannot go??? so ok, next week.....its not like i feel withdrawal like in the past......i guess i was the "poor man's"   shopaholic......

today , addiction free, i had FUN....i noticed the "non compulsion" last year, last summer....i could "take stuff or leave stuff"  and it was stuff i needed or really wanted........great feeling.....



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I am going to the 10 a.m. Spiritual Meeting in the al-anon chat room.

I will wash my dishes today (been putting that off).

I will do my laundry today (ditto). blankstare

I will get my daughter to clean her bathtub and I will take a long hot bath! She has the only bathtub! Mom and I have showers in our bathrooms.

I will call a special friend today and visit.

I will take care of myself and stand up for myself and not let others take advantage of me.

I will practice assertiveness.

Now I will print these out so I will be sure to stick to it! lol

Java



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I attended my home group this AM, it was great as always.
I rested and took a nap which I needed very much (and made me feel so much better)
I went to a movie that I totally LOVED last night.
I found what I needed at the thrift store this afternoon at the right price.
I saw an al anon friend just walking down the street on my way home from the thrift store (I love it when that happens).
I made myself some pizza from scratch (its cooling right now).
I will write in my journal some more and I will do some reading.
I will go to bed early (I love my bed sooo much).
I will get up early and go run a couple of miles in the AM.

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EXERCISING, EATING BETTER,KEEPING IN TOUCH WITH PEOPLE, MAKING MYSELF DO THINGS I DON'T NECESSARILY  WANT TO DO.
BELIEVING THAT I CAN DO THINGS I NEVER THOUGHT POSSIBLE ESPECIALLY IN RECOVERY. WHAT A CONCEPT!  I AM DOING  & LIVING THE PROGRAM.
KATHLEENsmile

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