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Ah yes, the old chestnut, trying to get inside the mind of someone else, figure out what they are thinking.it doesnt work for anyone and much less an active AH with 30 years of drinking behind him! Something someone else said on one of the forums which has really helped me when Im wondering and worrying about what my AH is doing, (not having any contact is very helpful but things play on my mind and I imagine all sorts of things);
"90% of what you think will happen, doesnt...and the other 10% doesnt happen like you thought it would".
I keep that uppermost in my mind everytime I start down the road of frightening myself with my own imagination.