The greatest enemy of individual freedom is the
individual himself.
Saul Alinsky said that, and he was right. In almost every
case, nothing is stopping you, nothing is holding you back
but your own thoughts about yourself and about "how life is."
Your personal freedom to experience yourself and life
as you wish is not being limited. Step into your choices
and stop telling yourself that you can't, when what you
really mean is that you don't want other people to feel the
way you think they are going to feel when they see you making
the choices you really want to make.
If we think that miracles are normal, we will expect them. And expecting a miracle is the surest way to get one.