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Well lived thru yet another weekend, with lots of aleve, and an Al-anon book in each pocket, and my Serenity Prayer Bracelet & Ring...lol... Laugh Yes, but true...
Well after Fridays kick in the teeth, I honestly didn't know what my husband would want to do, and I didn't really care to ask..lol.. For he is as sick of it as I am. But we got up at 7 a.m. on Sat. grabbed our sledge hammers, crow bars, and saws and went to work, and by 7:30, we had every person on that street awake, "Landowner lives right next door :), Well me the husband and boy got the first part of the roof off, and 2 walls, and I texted my Abrother and ask if he was home, He said yes why? and I said, "Get your A@@ to Dads I need your help... And two minutes later he was there, and helps us take the rest of it down...
Now he rolled right in, took over the Man role, with out stepping on my husbands toes, for he is still leary of him... and we got it the rest of the way down, since we only had the truck at that time, we just stacked it neatly and left it for the next morning.. I Thanked Abrother, told him I loved him and moved on...
So we got back to the house, and I jumped in the shower, and told Husband I wanted to take the bikes out, the boy wanted to go to a bike shop to find a part for his 4-wheeeler, so we made it a road trip about 211 miles round trip... It was a beautiful day, and we had a good time, me of course "After" the ALeve kicked in so I could move... (Sledge hammers are Heavy...lol) But we made a day of it, and didn't mention another word about the shed or the ordeal the rest of the day, got the boy his part, had a nice lunch, got me a nice shirt, husband found a poster he had wanted, and enjoyed God's Beauty...
Came home, got the mail, and there was Yet Another Registered letter, stating that I had to Move the Shed Before the 1st or I would be responsible for June Rent, and Water Bill... Well it just got my clock running WAY In the wrong direction... Mainly for the ignorance of these people... I have done NOTHING but what they have ask of me, I have kept Everything Currant, "When I was in charge", I have not fought on Anything, and they "sent" the letter on the 29th, I recieved it on the 30th, So yeah, they was kind enough to give me 24 hours to have it removed from the time the letter went out...This is how sneak'n they are...
I have since found out that they have been screwing me around all this time, for they have a "Friend" that was planning on moving a trailer to that Lot...And I am told that they can't move it there till July... Soooo They have been screwing with me all this time so that I would pay the land expenses till their friends were ready to set there trailer...That is why they made sure... Nothing Worked out For ME!!!
Well sorry to say, they were hoping that I would be stuck covering June for them as well, but since I "Got Busy", now they have no leg to stand on, I tried knocking on ALL their doors the other day (there is 4 of them, I knocked on 3 & the business because I dont know were the other lives) to go over my COMPLETINESS, but not One of them would anwser their doors... :) For my Family Name speaks for its self I suppose, and they just couldn't deal with my Honesty... But They will...
Sooo Sunday went up with the trailer, loaded it, didn't call Abrother, but he seen me pull in, and he just Showed up "On his own", helped us load it, I told him I loved him, thanked him, and let it Go... We brought it home, and got busy in my house... It is still in our trailer, and I don't know if it will go back together, BUT... It is Not On Their Property, and now I can MOVE ON!!!
I have started a letter to (1) of the Landowners, the one that Caused all the chaos for so long, for I think it only far that she see the hole picture of what she has done to ME... She may not care at all ,and that is fine!... But I need closure! when I get my letter the way I want it, with HP's Help, she will have to come off her high horse for at least "that" moment, when she reads it, and that is Good with me!...I know some back round on this one, for she use to lay down with my Afather "Back in the day", I think she needs reminded of that as well... And once that is sent on, I am going to do my best to "Let Go & Let God" handle the rest, so I can get my Afather a stone, and FINALLY Let him Rest in Peace!!! For that was my Only Goal to begin with...
Prayin for HP's Will for Me, so I can get back to my program, and back to being/finding ME!!! Thanks MIP Family... With out all of you & my f2f, I Don't know were I would be...
I guess you could say...At this Point...I HAVE SURVIVED! And there is Nothing they can do about it...
Jozie____I have started a letter to (1) of the Landowners, the one that Caused all the chaos for so long, for I think it only far that she see the hole picture of what she has done to ME... She may not care at all ,and that is fine!... But I need closure! when I get my letter the way I want it, with HP's Help, she will have to come off her high horse for at least "that" moment, when she reads it, and that is Good with me!...I know some back round on this one, for she use to lay down with my Afather "Back in the day", I think she needs reminded of that as well... And once that is sent on, I am going to do my best to "Let Go & Let God" handle the rest, so I can get my Afather a stone, and FINALLY Let him Rest in Peace!!! For that was my Only Goal to begin with...
ROSIE____Now when I do "closure" stuff it is for ME...MY peace...MY finish line....I do NOT expect the "other person" to care....
