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I was thinking about this post from yesterday all day today.
That is how we just do not think like an A does. I mean I would never have thought that when AH was here for awhile one time, that when I left to town, he would be right behind me going to get bottle, and be home before me.
I never saw him drink remember?
Once he said he would wait in the car while I got a few groceries. Well this time a friend of ours was in the store. I said hey why don't you go out and say hi to Ah?
Friend comes back in, "what did you drive here?" I went out, jeep was gone. ????
I get groceries,go out and he is in the same spot?
He acts l like nothing happened. I say ya T was here and went to see you.
The disease is so quick," Oh I left to go to blah blah... "
Right, was a dumb answer for one thing. I did not say anything, thanks to Al Anon.
shaking head at all the things the disease comes up with that shock us.
I always keep an open watermelon with a spoon in it during the day. My favorite food. Anyway we get married, I still have a watermelon out. He starts eating it too. Was neat. Well until his disease got even worse. He had the nerve to eat the whole heart of the watermelon and leave the rest.
rrrrr that was a shocker new one.
Wasn't it N8MOM? Believe me, their diease will get us everytime!
I think the ex A got off on how well he could lie and how much he could get away with. He wove a web of deceit all the time. I began to see everything was a lie. Confronting him did nothing he got very abusive. I let myself sink into a swamp of craziness. I am so glad you are out of that Debilyn.
