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Post Info TOPIC: Trying to think postive about the negatives


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Trying to think postive about the negatives


So my cell phone was shut off today :(

But to turn it positive I just keep thinking well that's the best excuse I can give him to not have to talk to him! Because I was gong to take a couple weeks and ignore all his calls! He will call and it's shut off so he can't get mad at me for not answering and I wont have to listen to his complaining or voice mails because I chose not to talk to him.

Now I just hope he doesn't show up to where he thinks I may be...

But I got the internet back last night!!! Had a friend hook up a wireless thing or something...

So I can come here and work my online job and make SOME money!!!

Hope everyone is having a good day! Im going to go hang out with a friend tongiht and get out of my sisters house for a bit!

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Aloha Melissa!!

That is one way to work the program...look for the good and the miracles in what
we usually take as bad.   It believe it's call changing attitudes/perspectives.  "If
you keep and open mind you will find help..."  from the closing statement to the
face to face open Al-Anon Family Groups meetings.

(((((hugs)))) smile

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Good for you, way to turn it over & not view an ant hill as a crisis (which is how i used to operate).  So much depends on our own attitudes, turning it over & choosing to focus on the positive radically changed my life in a few weeks time.  Good for you, wonderful way to work it.

Have fun tonight, you so deserve it.  Very happy you're back to work online.

Rock on!

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yea, instead of 'awfulizing" you saw the good...VERY healthy thinking

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Good for ou Melissa.  I am so glad you have the internet connection back!!!
Enjoy the time with your friends. 

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Hello Melissa,
I am happy you are taking care of yourself. Sounds like you are headed on your way up. You are doing fantastic!
Sincerely,
Tonya

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'good attitude! Been there hon, it's a drag to not have communication though!

Glad you go your internet going!

hugs,debilyn

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