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It's been quite some time since I have posted. Things in my life have improved so much, ...mostly because I learned to just take control of ME! I have been working my own program and not worrying about what anyone else is doing. Abf has been working his own program in his own way...I dont know how or what, but I dont need to..and that, my friends, is refreshing! We have almost 3 months sober here and though I know the journey is still just at the beginning, its one that is now so much less daunting to take. The behaviors are still there on his part, but I know (hope) that time will help change them, and now that I am not totally focused on them, they don't matter all that much to me, not like they used to. We just celebrated our 7th year together on the first of this month....I got a wedding proposal,...which, for obvious reasons, I declined, but the thought was nice. Who knows, maybe someday, but I wont hold my breath! Anyhow, I just wanted to touch base with all of you who have helped guide me down my own path, and to once again thank you all for all you do! Seeking peace, jeannie
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if you bring forth what is within you, what is within you will save you
