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Post Info TOPIC: "neurotics build castles in the sky, psychotics live in them..."


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"neurotics build castles in the sky, psychotics live in them..."


Our mind and our delusions are formless and colorless. However, our ignorance believing in true existence is harder than a rocky mountain. Our delusions are harder than steel.

- Lama Zopa Rinpoche, "The Door to Satisfaction"

 I just thought this was so great I had to share it with y'all. What we project in our mind is much more terrible than what is real and all. I love it when it says "our delusions are harder than steel." No kidding!



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Tiger (((((HUGS)))))

Isn't that the truth... My Delusions are ALWAYS worse then the accual outcome... Guess we all need something to work on :)

Thanks for share'n ;)
Jozie

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Thank you Tiger! I agree with Jozie, my delusions are worse than the truth. Have to work on that :)


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would it be too much if i wrote that on a note card and taped it to the visor of my baseball cap, hanging down so it was always there for me to read?!?!  lol

today i practiced "doing despite the fear" and got so much done that... guess what?   i am not anxious about those things i was putting off anymore

it was such a success because i acknowledged my feelings and acknowledged that many of them were based on "what ifs" and did what i had to do anyway   i just let the yucky feelings hang out with me as i crossed one chore after the other off my list   

for some of the time i forgot about the pain and twice i felt happy  i was so grateful to feel good after such a crappy month of A-drama that i said a gratitude prayer for those 10 minutes of relief     good for me!

and i can honestly say that alanon is responsible for my new goal of managing my emotions   thank you all for being here!!

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This is another way of saying that WE DO HAVE A CHOICE, just like we say in al-anon- great share and thanks! Jean

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