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A very good friend of mine is in the hospital and is not expected to live. I have known Helen for over 27 years. She and her husband were the first friendship my husband and I formed after we first got married. She survived cancer only to probably die from pneumonia. She is on a respirator and cannot speak. She wrote a note to her husband with only one word on it; it said "die"!!! God be with her and her husband.
I called my AD to let her know about Helen. She was like an aunt to my daughters while they were growing up. Of course, I had to leave her a voice message; 5 hours ago and she has not called me back. Why do I expect anything more from her???? I keep thinking that she would do the "normal" thing and phone me; especially after the phone message I left her about my friend. What more can I say.
Everyone, plese put my friend and her husband on your prayer list. Thanks for giving me a place to express my thoughts and feelings.
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Clara
------------------------------------ What don't kill you, makes you stronger!!!
Unfortunately my dear there is no such thing as "normal" when people are in the throes of addiction. You were kind enough to leave her a message. That's all you can do. The rest of it is up to her.
My heart goes out to you and your friends. I will certainly keep all of you in my love and prayers. I remember thinking when my Dad was so sick. He wanted to let go. I was taking a walk and telling him it was okay if he wanted to let go. He must have heard me, as he past not long after. Much love and blessings to you and your family.
Live strong, Karilynn & Pipers Kitty
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It's your life. Take no prisoners. You will have it your way.
