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Hi everyone! I'm having a good week and wanted to post that I feel happy . I don't fully understand why I feel happy but, this the first "happy" I've felt in the last six months since I got married and came to the realization that I married an A. I shared for the first time on an online meeting last week and I've decided to start my meetings after the holidays as my Christmas present to me....I'm finally going! Also, I'm not focusing on my AH so much and, I'm happier....it's the weirdest sensation...one I still can't get my arms fully around but I'm not going to argue! LOL. I also wanted to thank you all for being here (not that I wish our situations on anyone) but, I'm very grateful that I'm not alone...
(madmom) What a inspiring post, also a wonderful Christmas present to give yourself. Hope to hear about your first f2f meeting. Keep coming back, and keep up the good work, I'm proud of you.
That's the best Christmas present you, or any of us, can give yourself! I go to more than one meeting a week and really look forward to them! I always feel better after a meeting. Just listening to others lets you know that you are not alone in all this craziness!
I am glad to hear you are having a good week. At the time I am having trouble focusing on myself and not on the A, but I did great there for quite a while and it is a relief, it's a great feeling. I am not as bad as I used to be at focusing on him. It tells me that it's not a good idea for myself to think I don't need alanon when I'm feeling like everything is fine.
Alanon makes a world of a difference. Glad to hear you are better.
Buick I know what you mean about having trouble with focus....its very difficult. I'll keep you in my prayers, well, I actually keep all of you collectively in my prayers..but here are some hugs for you (((buick)))
. I don't fully understand why I feel happy but, this the first "happy" I've felt in the last six months since I got married and came to the realization that I married an A. 
