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Dear All, Stepmother A died at 5.30 this morning. I contacted her daughters and broke the news to them. She was a good person with a nasty disease, and I am not talking about the cancer. I know my father will find it hard to carry on without her and I only hope he doesn't drown it all with drink but I think he will as he is powerless over same
I know for sure your loss was actually a long time ago. I also know for me it was a big loss not to have a functioning mother and father when I was an adult as well. I grieved for a long long time. I know the funeral will be a tough one. I hope you will lean on us for comfort and to let it all out. I think you have accomplished a great deal in not going into codependence under such great stress. Maresie.
I'm sorry for your loss. I know your program will work you through this and hope your father will find recovery as well. You are in my thoughts today.
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~Jen~
"When you come to the edge of all you know you must believe in one of two things... there will be earth on which to stand or you will be given wings." ~Unknown