The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
If you want to see who keeps me company, look at the newest members of Potter's Eden.
the feb. 10 new are the newest ones.
I have not had contact with my husband A still. I put all you guys told me together and realized i was just following the same roller coaster patten.Thank you for being brave enough to tell me the truth.
I still miss him and grieve, probably always will. But the more time that goes by, the more my life becomes richer and my own with out him in it.
I do so much admire you and will look up your site at another time when it isn't so late. It takes a certain strong and healthy individual to be able to do what you are doing in your life with your A. I really valued the replies you got from your recent post about your A and I can see too that your HP is really guiding your life. This so inspires me to reach out to mine too. Thanks for being my friend! cdb
I'm to hear you are giving yourself space to grieve without feeling like that means you need to take your A back. You are a very courageous woman and I am grateful you share your experience strength and hope here.
Having left my own A a little more than a year ago, I completely understand your pain at this time. It will pass. And it sounds like you have already experienced some recovery by living alone. Take care and keep posting.
Love and hugs, Jessi
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Hi Debilyn, I couldn't get on that site to see your pics of your 'family'. I'm an animal lover too. Don't know how I'd ever survive without them! So glad to see you are doing so well. I so much admire your strength. Your shares have helped me through a lot. Good to see you are taking care of you, hope your health is better? Love, TLC
It was wonderful to find you in here! I have often thought about you; especially when I am slathering vasoline over the pole to my hummingbird feeder in defense of "the ants". LOL