The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
What does it mean when I feel like I don't have anything to say anymore? I have a vision in my mind of the preacher smacking me on the forehead and saying you're healed... LOL
For me this feeling comes and goes. Sometimes it means I am able to let go and not feel the need to convince people of my view. Sometimes it means I am able to take a break and let HP control stuff, usually when I'm feeling tired or overwhelmed.
Not sure if tha's what you meant, but those are a couple of my thoughts.
In recovery,
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~Jen~
"When you come to the edge of all you know you must believe in one of two things... there will be earth on which to stand or you will be given wings." ~Unknown
i feel like I barely scratched teh surface of the recovery of codependence. I also see how controlling I was, example meeting people who have nothing in common and thinking I can change them. Now if I meet somene and there is no common ground, I let go. Before there was no leting go.
For me it can mean that I'm burnt out, tired or just need a break. There have been plenty of times when I just come here and read the posts without responding. It keeps my head in the game. It is what it is. I wouldn't read too much into it. You're doing just fine. Love and blessings to you and your family.
Live strong, Karilynn & Pipers Kitty
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It's your life. Take no prisoners. You will have it your way.
Well, not being there myself, as I still have plenty to say, my interpretation is that you have reached acceptance. No more analyzing or figuring out why, no more trying to convince or fix, just accepting that it just is. Sounds good to me!
Blessings, Lou
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Every new day begins with new possibilities. It's up to us to fill it with the things that move us toward progress and peace. ~ Ronald Reagan~
Sometimes what you want to do has to fail, so you won't ~Marguerite Bro~