Al-Anon Family Group

The material presented here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method to exchange information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal level.

Members Login
Username 
 
Password 
    Remember Me  
Post Info TOPIC: The Cab Ride


~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 1501
Date:
The Cab Ride


Hi ((((Family))))

Got this in an email today and thought I would share it with you all.

**********************************************************************


THE CAB RIDE


Twenty years ago, I drove a cab for a living. One night I
went to pick up a
fare at 2:30 am.

When I arrived at the address, the building was dark
except for a
single light in a ground floor window.

Under these circumstances, many drivers would just honk
once, but I
had seen too many impoverished people who depended on
taxis as their only
means of transportation.

Unless a situation smelled of danger, I always went to the
door.
This passenger might be someone who needs my assistance, I
reasoned to
myself.



So I walked to the door and knocked. 'Just a minute',
answered a
frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged
across the floor.


After a long pause, the door opened. A small woman in her
80's stood
before me. She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat
with a veil
pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940s movie.


By her side was a small nylon suitcase The apartment
looked as if no
one had lived in it for years. All the furniture was
covered with sheets.

There were no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks or
utensils on the
counters. In the corner was a cardboard box filled with
photos and
glassware.

'Would you carry my bag out to the car?' she said. I took
the
suitcase to the cab, then returned to assist the woman.

She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb. She
kept
thanking me for my kindness. 'It's nothing', I told her.
'I just try to
treat my passengers the way I would want my mother
treated'.

'Oh, you're such a good boy', she said. When we got in the
cab, she
gave me an address, and then asked, 'Could you drive
through downtown?'

'It's not the shortest way,' I answered quickly.



'Oh, I don't mind,' she said 'I'm in no hurry. I'm on my
way to a
hospice'.

I looked in the rear-view mirror. Her eyes were
glistening. 'I don't
have any family left,' she continued. 'The doctor says I
don't have very
long.' I quietly reached over and s hut off the meter.

'What route would you like me to take?' I asked.



For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She
showed me the
building where she had once worked as an elevator
operator. We drove
through the neighborhood where she and her husband had
lived when they were
newlyweds. She had me pull up in front of a furniture
warehouse that had once been a ballroom where she had gone
dancing
as a girl.

Sometimes she'd ask me to slow in front of a particular
building or
corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying
nothing.

As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she
suddenly
said, 'I'm tired. Let's go now'

We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It
was a low
building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway
that passed under
a portico.

Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up.
They were
solicitous and intent, watching her every move. They must
have been
expecting her.

I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the
door. The
woman was already seated in a wheelchair.

'How much do I owe you?' she asked, reaching into her
purse.


'Nothing,' I said

'You have to make a living,' she answered. 'There are
other
passengers,' I responded.

Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug. She
held onto me
tightly.

'You gave an old woman a little moment of joy,' she said.
'Thank
you.'

I squeezed her hand, and then walked into the dim morning
light.
Behind me, a door shut. It was the sound of the closing of
a life.



I didn't pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove
aimlessly
lost in thought. For the rest of that day, I could hardly
talk. What if that
woman had gotten an angry driver, or one who was impatient
to end his shift?
What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once,
then driven away?


On a quick review, I don't think that I have done anything
more
important in my life.

We're conditioned to think that our lives revolve around
great
moments. But great moments often catch us
unaware-beautifully wrapped in
what others may consider a small one.

PEOPLE MAY NOT REMEMBER EXACTLY WHAT 'YOU DID, OR WHAT YOU
SAID,
~BUT~ THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HOW YOU MADE THEM FEEL.


Life may not be the party we hoped for; but, while we are
here, we
might as well dance.

*********************************************************************


Such a great story and reminds me so well how important it is for me
to listen to what my inner voice is telling me and to treat everyone
I encounter as who they are...a child of God.

Have a great day everyone!
biggrin

David


__________________
Laughter is the Beginning of Healing


~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 707
Date:

Elvis,
What a beautiful post to wake up to.  And way to get the old brain a thinking.

Thanks for sharing that with us and me hehe.

Yours in recovery,
Mandy


__________________

"We are not punished for our unforgiveness, we are punished by it" Jim Stovall

God is seldom early, but he is never late.



Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 323
Date:

((david))

Thank you sharing that beautiful story with us....the message is so true. 
Sometimes just a smile from a stranger can make someone's day...help lift their spirits..
your friend in recovery,
rosie

__________________


~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 1652
Date:

That was great. ;)

Of course, the Al-anoner in me wants to go rescue the little old lady and visit her every day so she's always happy. :b

__________________
ESH


Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 153
Date:

This was so touching!  I have read it before, but just re-read every single word again.  I almost cried!  Thank you!

__________________


~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 1917
Date:

Thanks David, glad you are here to bring us stuff like this. Hugs, J.

__________________


Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 446
Date:

David,

Deeply, deeply touched. My face awash with tears of joy and sadness. Makes one think.
God was there with the old lady and the taxi driver, just as he is now, with each one of us.

Speechless.

Thank you
heart.gif

__________________
"The highest form of wisdom is kindness." The Talmund



~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 1371
Date:

(((((((David)))))))

That is a great story... I had not seen that one before, but how true. Thank you for sharing that with us. I needed that one... as usual. *smile*

Take care of you my friend!

__________________
"Good judgement comes from experience... experience comes from bad judgement" - unknown


Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 476
Date:

Beautiful message in this story. One I TRY to remember every day. The world is so rushed and selfish sometimes, that it's easy to get caught up in it. Thanks for the reminder of what we're really here for.

~R3

__________________


~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 3223
Date:

Thanks ((David))

I've seen this before but took great pleasure in rereading it.

Imagine....if everyone in the world had such compassion for their fellow man.  No war, no gang killings.

You may say that I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will live as one
~John Lennon~

What can I say?  I should have been a "love and peace" hippie in the 60's but I was in grade school  :)  I'll have to settle for being a tree hugger.
For today, my spirit is dampened due to the Canada seal slaughter that started today.  WRONG! WRONG! WRONG! On so many levels.  Not for food, just senseless slaughter for pelts.  Sickening.

Sorry..lol  How I got from a cab ride story to John Lennon to baby seals is beyond me.

Love peace and chicken grease,biggrin
Christy

__________________

If we think that miracles are normal, we will expect them.  And expecting a miracle is the surest way to get one.



~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 521
Date:

((((David)))))

Thank you for sharing this with us. Many of us never realize how much our lives can touch others for good.

Reminds us to slow down, and see what we may be missing.

Love,

Claudia

__________________
A person's a person no matter how small  --Dr Suess


~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 3656
Date:

((((((((David)))))))),

Elvis may leave the building sometimes, but he always comes back with a good one! wink  That's a keeper my friend.  Thanks for being part of my life and recovery.  What a blessing you are.  Love and blessings to you and your family. Kiss "da boys" for me.

Live strong,
Karilynn & Pipers Kitty smile


__________________
It's your life. Take no prisoners. You will have it your way.


Veteran Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 45
Date:

David.....Thank You!

__________________


Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 100
Date:

Thanks for that David.
Blessings
Jennifer


__________________


Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 241
Date:



David,

I've seen this before I itmoves me everytime. I have the privilage og working with senior citizen's every day and they deserve the utmost respect. So many are left without any family and it is an honor to make their day in any small way I CAN.
Thanks for sharing!
Whitie

__________________
Page 1 of 1  sorted by
 
Quick Reply

Please log in to post quick replies.