Just a quick update to say Thank you....

Today was the 2nd court date for my AH for his OUIL on a snowmobile.  As we drove out there and waited while the lawyer talked to the prosecuter, I was oddly very calm.  The day of the arraignment, I was nervous and sick to my stomach all day.   Even after his lawyer came out and told us what was going on and that AH would 'most likely' not see any jail time, I was still calm.  The only thing that I can think that has brought me to this point is my new relationship with my HP and all the ESH on this board.   AH is upset and distraught over the uncertaintly of his future.  I, on the other hand, figure if you play, you pay!!  Although this circumstance is not one I care to have in my life, it is not happening directly to me, and regardless of the outcome...I will still be ok.  Maybe not financially but I'll still be ok.

Thank you all for your ESH, and your posts and for just being here.  It has definately began to help me. 

(((HUGS)))) to all!