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man i really need a sponsor. i was planning on asking this one older woman who i had spoken to twice before, but she wasnt around tonight and i wsnt fully on the fence about it either...... i am just really eager to get started with the steps. and when i dont get to a face 2 face meeting i lose my focus on the philosophies of alanon. maybe its just not time for me to do the steps? there is always an obstacle i have to go through to get what i want hahaha. anyway if there is anyone out there willing to help me get started on the steps, i would really appreciate some suggestions on how! thanks!!!!
Maybe try checking out the step work board that is linked to this site.
You do not have to have a sponsor to start working the steps. you can read them, ciscuss them at meetings, contemplate what they mean to you, call someone from your f2f. You can call people from your f2f that are not your sponsor. Just dig in. There's no right way to start.
Oh by the way, excuses are like farts, everybody has them and they all stink. LOL I'm not being mean, it helps to remind me when I seem to have lots of excuses myself.
Hope this helps. Have a great day of recovery!
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~Jen~
"When you come to the edge of all you know you must believe in one of two things... there will be earth on which to stand or you will be given wings." ~Unknown
