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Well I have had the visiting form on my counter at home for two weeks and finally filled it out yesterday with a half nice, half not so nice letter to the A. I wonder if I am shooting myself in the foot by not just walking away now. I haven't gotten any mail from him since the letter with the visit form and I am not really sure I have anything nice to say or want to see him. I'm still bitter about the girl, and honestly I have been VERY busy and not sure if I want to take a precious day off to go see him. Anyway, the deed is done but I don't have to go if I decide not to. I hope I'm not setting myself up by doing this and wonder in my mind why can't I just WALK AWAY??? He doesn't seem to have any problem doing it!
It's always good to ask yourself what you are expecting out of this and what your motives for going are. That always helped me in deciding if I was shooting myself or not LOL. Sometimes I did this and still shot myself in the foot anyhow.
