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Rita G · Rita G

Before Al-Anon, I used to think things happened by chance, accident or coincidence - not so much anymore - Let me explain . . . About 5 yrs before getting into Al-Anon, my younger brother who is very active in AA, gave me an Al-Anon speaker tape. The speaker was a lady from California. I li...

Dolphin123 · Dolphin123

Hi roomies, (Continued from previous post Praying for a Miracle From A Bottle, that is what the mechanic called the stuff he put in my car last week) I just drove my car the 100 miles needed to see if the "Miracle in a Bottle" would work, well it didn't I need to replace the tranny. And I just got the quot...

hmrnrnmm · hmrnrnmm

Well, We got a ride to town today to drop of the part ( carborator). We were able to get dog food & our medications. I got to work early. I was due at noon. I sat on a porch out of site & did my daily readings. I was in a better mood. I have been accused of being negative. My A says she is hurting an...

Diva · Diva

I believe he has secrets. He has a yahoo email address; he has a web-cam that I just discovered yesterday. I have issues with trust anyway, and I find incriminating evidence. He also received an email on his regular email site from some porn site. He said it was something he had no knowledge of and delete...

Becky1 · Becky1

I posted a couple of days ago about a slip I had. While I was at the library, using the computer to post, my A sent me a text message.......I'm sorry, are you coming home. I sent back "Why" He sent "Because I love you and want you here" Weird. Just the night before, I was fat, u...

AlaMom · AlaMom

Today child services is at my house to interview myself and my kids related to the incident a few weeks ago at my house. This for me is the consequence of me dropping the restraining order on my husband. Standard stuff but I am pretty freaked out over it. It is somewhere that I thought...

jonibaloni · jonibaloni

How in the world do you deal with someone just 'vanishing' from your life? How do you not think it's about YOU...??? I don't believe the person is drinking... it is a woman friend, online... just said 'goodbye' and nothing else. Grieving. Help.

-- Edited by jonibaloni at 09:53, 2006...

codyvic · codyvic

Hello I am new to this site....I have a long term partner who seems to have struggled with alcohol since I have known her. I feel lucky in so many ways because there is no abuse and in fact she is always kind, considerate and caring whether drunk or sober. The problem is that we have a new bab...

smpoli · smpoli

For those that are keeping up with me, we are all doing ok. I am so bad at posting, I am used to just going to the chat room and letting those know who are on line at the time. Anyway, I am doing ok today. I am on a major spiritual path of a lifetime. I believe my HP has a plan for me.&n...

sg · sg

It's been awhile since I have logged on here. I don't know how to say this other than to just say it...my husband committed suicide Thursday, July 6th. Friggen alcoholism. Those that know me here know that we had been having difficulties in our marriage for the past 4 yrs w/relapses and contin...

DoN4me · DoN4me

I wanted to share something that was wonderful that I did for myself last night. When I started the program I had lost all interest I had in music. I had just walked away from it all. Gradually in time my love for music has returned again. When I joined the program I had given up everything I had enjoy...

babysteps · babysteps

Well, after ten beautiful days of sobriety, he is passed out on the floor of our bedroom. I spoke with him just after 5 pm and he sounded just fine. As soon as I got home at 5:30 I could tell something was up and by the time dinner was over he was staggering. He must of pounded some of those 8% alcohol beers they...

twinmom2 · twinmom2

Hello Everyone, I have not posted in a while. I was on a much needed four day weekend and enjoyed myself. Feels good to say that.

My A and I are plugging along. He's keeping busy with work and his music projects. I'm keeping busy with work, recovery, kids, and...

nal · nal

Hi everyone, My Dad is the A in my life, allegedly clean and doing all the right things. My mother just told me that she found a Tiffany bag with a receipt for an expensive bracelet bought in April. The bracelet was gone, and he did not give it to her. He made some lame excuse about it being an early Chris...

mysticmidian · mysticmidian

I posted earlier with the topic "husband in recovery" and these are some of the specific issues that I referred to in that post: Well, one of the problems that we have is that he says that I always have to be right. That is not the case, I don't always have to be right but I am certainly not going to ke...

Lindy · Lindy

I haven't had access to a computer until today so here's what happened over the weekend. The weekends are almost always rough for my son and me. It was 100 degrees over this last weekend. I took my son to the pool. I always invite my AH to come with, but he always declines because he can't drink and smoke the...

Jennifer · Jennifer

Hello (((Everyone))) You know today is one of those days that i don't even want to post this. It seems like everything I say lately is so negative and needy. I am praying for something positive to say SOON, and I am praying that I am digging up and out faster than he is digging down. I can't remember the...

liliana · liliana

My husband was going out with friends from work tonight. The last time we spoke on the phone was around 5 this afternoon. It is now 11 pm. He was really drunk this afternoon. I am so tired of his inconsideration. He has his cell phone off. My sponser tells me to change my r...

serendipity · serendipity

last night and today were hellish. last night my 3 year old said the bump on her head was because my mother's live in alcoholic hit her. i wanted to throw up and then kill him. but i didn't react. we ate dinner and i thought about what to do and how to do it. it was late so my decision was to go home and put them to b...

serendipity · serendipity

i spent an hour on the phone with my a. he was served on friday so i guess i can start calling him my ex-a. the convo was as ok as it could be. i asked him what he was going to do with the papers (sign them, fight them...) he didn't answer me till later in the convo. he said something about me having full custody an...

lebe27 · lebe27

Hi, Well the money problems are starting already. A used up the last of his insurance settlement money. Today his checking account shows negative $107 and he doesn't get his disabiilty check until the 1st. With the settlement money the last 5 months he has been living high on th...

dori · dori

Hi, I am in Houston so it rains alot some weeks.I love the rain the storms the lighting .I know soon the sun comes out the rainbow shows and it is over.The calm is here and I made it thuogh the storm.It makes me see it will pass. I thought for all who are going through a storm today you can say...

jonibaloni · jonibaloni

To let go does not mean to stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else. To let go is not to cut myself off, it's the realization I can't control another. To let go is not to enable, but allow learning from natural consequences. To let g...

hmrnrnmm · hmrnrnmm

Well, Today is almost over. We have rides for tommorrow. lol Today, I guess I was suppose to give over control and responsiblity to my HP & my A, Tina.

I have been dealing with depression for years. I have been on antidepressants since 1989. Soon after my divorce, I have been on many di...

AlaMom · AlaMom

(((Everyone))) I want to thank everyone for all the birthday wishes over the past couple of days. I would also like to thank everyone who each and every day shares their ES&H. From the newcomer who reminds me how far I have come to the oldtimers who show me that I have that much furthe...

mysticmidian · mysticmidian

Hi, I met my husband when he had a year and a half sobriety, we have now been together for 6 years and he has 7+years sobriety now. I have never known him when he was drinking and I have never been around other alcoholics before, not friends or family. I have been very supportive and understandi...

Jennifer · Jennifer

GRUMBLE GRUMBLE Hemming and hawing over posting this but here it goes Good morning (((Everyone))) I'm not gonna go into the whole background of my last few posts because of time, I gotta get to work soon LOL My AH or soon to be ex AH (I'm not sure what to call this relationship anymore) called Monda...

annmarie · annmarie

He said he was sorry but he had no money to get me a present. It's my birthday today. He said he would get me something when he gets paid tomorrow, but that he wouldn't be able to afford much anyway...then he asked me if this was okay. I just said that he should do whatever he has to do. I knew this would hap...

jonibaloni · jonibaloni

...don't ever deny an alcoholic his/her suffering. This statement is so meaningful to me, as a recovering alcoholic and as a sponsor of an alcoholic. All the enabling, butt-patting, caretaking and 'rescuing' in the world did not get me sober. Being at a place where I was literally BEATEN down to...

jj · jj

(((TLC))) My long winded friend!! lol i love it. I am glad that things are on the mend!! And I love to here from you weather it is here or in a email. I can so relate to summer and all the excuses but it sure seems like any day of the week could be an excuse for hubby these days. I don't really care...

Becky1 · Becky1

A few days ago, as I was looking on our computer, I found a picture that was emailed to my husband by a man he works with of a girl he has been seeing in another state. In the picture the girl had her shirt pulled up exposing herself. I thought the whole thing was really tacky, the girl is m...

lovescoping · lovescoping

Hi Everyone, I am very new to this board. I have been reading over all the posts for the past two days and have learned a lot of things. One is, for sure I am not alone in this. I knew I wasn't, but to hear that other people have the same problems with thier lives and struggle with the AH o...

KCB · KCB

A little over 5 years ago, following an especially heavy drinking period, I went to AA and got sober, and have remained alcohol-free since that time. This spring I met and fell in love with someone, and we have recently moved in together. I am a musician and play regularly around...

purpleraven · purpleraven

my A is the second alcoholic i've been with in my life. the last was 16 years ago, when i was young enough to say "i just can't handle this" and move on. he wasn't in recovery yet, he was still in denial. i knew so little about alcohol that i couldn't even tell when he was drunk at first. then i figured out the pa...

Diva · Diva

I ate too much seafood e'touffee, too much shrimp gumbo, and too much Tony Chacherie's!!! But what a great time we had doing it. Gained 2 1/2 lbs, so am working now on getting that off. Enjoyed good friends, danced, sang; a real Louisiana good time. I'll catch up on the posts. I have kept you all in my p...

Karilynn · Karilynn

((((((((((((((((Family)))))))))))))))))). Where did the MIP map go? I was going to post a picture of Pipers Kitty and couldn't find the map. Also when I went to change my photo here to one of Pipers, it said that the file was too big. Keeping in mind that I am not as computer savy as the rest of yo...

annmarie · annmarie

Hi Everyone, It was my birthday yesterday...and I know I'm going on...and lots of you sent me well wishes which I really appreciated. I just wanted to share with you how I feel today. He (my Aboyfriend) was surprised to see all the cards and presents I got for my birthday. I have a big family and lot...

hersh · hersh

Hi everyone: Does anyone have any wisdom on just the roller coaster and uncertainties of this recovery? I am so confused and feeling nuts. I have been up all night lastnight just worried worried worried, I know I shouldn't and I tried not to but the more I tried not to the more my mind just...

hmrnrnmm · hmrnrnmm

(I thought) the appt I have Thursday to see the neurologist at 2:45am. I am suppose to get the results of my sleep study test & CTScan. And find out why I am having these migraines. I was hoping to make it to this appt. I was hoping to get on some new medications before I leave on the 26th. If I call a...

AlaMom · AlaMom

Since late yesterday I noticed I have been kind of falling into a bit of a pity pot. I know why and it is really self-inflicted. Tomorrow is my birthday and I will be 38. It is not the age that is getting to me for I know it is only a number and we are as young as we choose to be. The reas...

maresie2 · maresie2

Yesterday I got stung pretty badly by some wasps. My leg is all swollen as is my back. I don't even bother to tell the A. I know he does not care. He would offer nothing anyways. I feel incredibly sad that I live with someone who does not care about me. I did not have the courage to admit that before...

marmare · marmare

Mom left on her final trip yesterday morning at 10:50am to join our dad. She is finally painfree and at peace. Thanks for all the support here. Hugs Mary PS My A has supported me through the last 6 weeks, being right by my side and was with me when mom left us.

drucilla06 · drucilla06

(((friends))) I had a different post here but I erased it.It was a relapse,I think. I had listed some of the resentments I have had come to the surface while doing my 4th step. I re-read my post this morning and my answers were staring me in the face.The resentments I have toward my AH are all due to h...

maresie2 · maresie2

One of the things that the A does that used to kill me was to minimize my needs. Whatever I want is discounted and diminished. When I had asthma he said I just needed to exercise. When I had sepsis he told me I'd be fine it was all in my head and he could not help me get to the hospital. I eventually ended up with a...

annmarie · annmarie

Hi everyone, I'm trying to figure out why I feel people are laughing at me quite a lot. It's as if I have to struggle to make sure it doesn't happen. If my Aboyfriend does something that upsets me and involves other people (eg inappropriate conversation in my view..not his), I think they're lau...

angelnomore · angelnomore

I’m confused I know that when an AA is active in his/her addiction, they don’t care about much i.e.; work, family, themselves and life in general. What I’m confused about is: if the AA in your life is working on sobriety and working the steps going to meetings, go...

buzzfree · buzzfree

A friends wife passed on this past week....I met her a few times, and they both were very happy newlyweds....Before the program I probably would have wondered, where is God right now? How could he let this happen?? But thankfully I know that it is all part of a plan, one I cant see. I however can only exten...

hmrnrnmm · hmrnrnmm

I do not know which way to go now. I totally screwed up yesterday. I blame myself. My A says that HP has a reason for yesterdays disaster. I was doing great or so I thought. I got outside an hour before I had to leave. I was going to take off the fuel filter that screws into the carborator. I have d...

Tiger2006 · Tiger2006

As a child, to help keep the fragile balence that was our alcholic home, decisions were generally made for me. From what I wore to what I ate, I was told what to do. Furthermore, when I made my own decisions, I was told (very loudly and violently) that I had made a "mistake" and that I needed "to learn...

jj · jj

Thanks to all who replied to my post last week. I went away for a few days so until now did not have a chance to reply.... It helps so much to share with others our experiences although at times it is difficult even on here. The release of finally begining to figure out these confusing feeli...

afmom03 · afmom03

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nal · nal

Hi, My parents are in their 70s and I find myself getting increasingly preoccupied and concerned with their health issues. I feel like a child inside despite my advancing age (39- LOL). I love them so much and can't imagine anything happening to them. I would be devastated. I think there is someth...

DoN4me · DoN4me

Ok I am frusted to all end again. I don't understand why my HP does the things they do. I was really hoping that today would turn out for the better. I was hoping he would finally see what damaged he had caused his family not to mention mine. I had a long talk with his family they agreed helping him fi...

Christy · Christy

A PM with (((bump))) the other day inspired me to think back of the miracles in my life, so I want to share as I truly believe they can't be coincedense. Starting with finding Alanon, and at the same time connecting with a cousin that I am very close to. The miracle: Alanon cut the path of chang...

rtexas · rtexas

((((Everyone)))) Thanks to my wonderful family here, I have realized that my compass may be broken. I was heading full speed down the path of recovery for myself, and I missed a turn somewhere. I have gotten anxious and resentful again without realizing it. Had a conversati...

daisy2 · daisy2

Hi all, i see this here a lot, but couldnt make it what means, do get the first - alcoholic, but what is W stand for? exuse me my ingorance Daisy

greta · greta

I learned of someones remark about me the other night that hurt, and my first reaction was to get fired up and say something mean about them. I stopped myself mid-sentence and changed the topic. ( a little progress!) However, it lead to a later committee meeting. That dreaded committee! ...

ollie · ollie

ragingchild · ragingchild

Hi Everybody! I haven't been around here for awhile and I miss everybody. I come here almost everyday and read the posts and keep tabs on ya'll (not to sound creepy thought :) ). I have been busy with my purse orders and candle orders and getting my flooring done plus one of my cats had kitt...

gardengal · gardengal

For years I blamed everyone else for my unhappiness,my feelings of dispair and worry. Coming to alanon I can see blaming my parents, my husband , my siblings, or my children was wrong. I learned in alanon that I was responsible for my own happiness, that no one didnt owe it to me to make me happy. I h...

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	Coincidence? I think not - Geaux HP!! (Preview) Before Al-Anon, I used to think things happened by chance, accident or coincidence - not so much anymore - Let me explain . . . About 5 yrs before getting into Al-Anon, my younger brother who is very active in AA, gave me an Al-Anon speaker tape. The speaker was a lady from California. I li...	Rita G	4	471	Jul 22, 2006 by Christy
	There wasn't a miracle in a bottle for me (Preview) Hi roomies, (Continued from previous post Praying for a Miracle From A Bottle, that is what the mechanic called the stuff he put in my car last week) I just drove my car the 100 miles needed to see if the "Miracle in a Bottle" would work, well it didn't I need to replace the tranny. And I just got the quot...	Dolphin123	7	436	Jul 22, 2006 by Christy
	my diabolical plan to disable the truck a week before I was to leave (Preview) Well, We got a ride to town today to drop of the part ( carborator). We were able to get dog food & our medications. I got to work early. I was due at noon. I sat on a porch out of site & did my daily readings. I was in a better mood. I have been accused of being negative. My A says she is hurting an...	hmrnrnmm	2	382	Jul 22, 2006 by hmrnrnmm
	Secrets (Preview) I believe he has secrets. He has a yahoo email address; he has a web-cam that I just discovered yesterday. I have issues with trust anyway, and I find incriminating evidence. He also received an email on his regular email site from some porn site. He said it was something he had no knowledge of and delete...	Diva	12	541	Jul 22, 2006 by Diva
	After My Slip (Preview) I posted a couple of days ago about a slip I had. While I was at the library, using the computer to post, my A sent me a text message.......I'm sorry, are you coming home. I sent back "Why" He sent "Because I love you and want you here" Weird. Just the night before, I was fat, u...	Becky1	5	448	Jul 22, 2006 by Becky1
	Child Services Visit... (Preview) Today child services is at my house to interview myself and my kids related to the incident a few weeks ago at my house. This for me is the consequence of me dropping the restraining order on my husband. Standard stuff but I am pretty freaked out over it. It is somewhere that I thought...	AlaMom	6	401	Jul 22, 2006 by TLC2
	someone 'vanishes' from your life..... (Preview) How in the world do you deal with someone just 'vanishing' from your life? How do you not think it's about YOU...??? I don't believe the person is drinking... it is a woman friend, online... just said 'goodbye' and nothing else. Grieving. Help. -- Edited by jonibaloni at 09:53, 2006...	jonibaloni	8	503	Jul 21, 2006 by jonibaloni
	breathalyzer (Preview) Hello I am new to this site....I have a long term partner who seems to have struggled with alcohol since I have known her. I feel lucky in so many ways because there is no abuse and in fact she is always kind, considerate and caring whether drunk or sober. The problem is that we have a new bab...	codyvic	3	305	Jul 21, 2006 by codyvic
	I am still around! (Preview) For those that are keeping up with me, we are all doing ok. I am so bad at posting, I am used to just going to the chat room and letting those know who are on line at the time. Anyway, I am doing ok today. I am on a major spiritual path of a lifetime. I believe my HP has a plan for me.&n...	smpoli	5	320	Jul 21, 2006 by sandie123
	sad and devastating news (Preview) It's been awhile since I have logged on here. I don't know how to say this other than to just say it...my husband committed suicide Thursday, July 6th. Friggen alcoholism. Those that know me here know that we had been having difficulties in our marriage for the past 4 yrs w/relapses and contin...	sg	30	813	Jul 21, 2006 by allison
	Wonderful night for myself (Preview) I wanted to share something that was wonderful that I did for myself last night. When I started the program I had lost all interest I had in music. I had just walked away from it all. Gradually in time my love for music has returned again. When I joined the program I had given up everything I had enjoy...	DoN4me	3	329	Jul 21, 2006 by david62
	Fooled again (Preview) Well, after ten beautiful days of sobriety, he is passed out on the floor of our bedroom. I spoke with him just after 5 pm and he sounded just fine. As soon as I got home at 5:30 I could tell something was up and by the time dinner was over he was staggering. He must of pounded some of those 8% alcohol beers they...	babysteps	6	399	Jul 21, 2006 by Dolphin123
	What's with obsession? (Preview) Hello Everyone, I have not posted in a while. I was on a much needed four day weekend and enjoyed myself. Feels good to say that. My A and I are plugging along. He's keeping busy with work and his music projects. I'm keeping busy with work, recovery, kids, and...	twinmom2	7	453	Jul 21, 2006 by Rebecca
	Here we go again... (Preview) Hi everyone, My Dad is the A in my life, allegedly clean and doing all the right things. My mother just told me that she found a Tiffany bag with a receipt for an expensive bracelet bought in April. The bracelet was gone, and he did not give it to her. He made some lame excuse about it being an early Chris...	nal	1	364	Jul 21, 2006 by maresie2
	Problems with husband in recovery (Preview) I posted earlier with the topic "husband in recovery" and these are some of the specific issues that I referred to in that post: Well, one of the problems that we have is that he says that I always have to be right. That is not the case, I don't always have to be right but I am certainly not going to ke...	mysticmidian	4	413	Jul 21, 2006 by nmike
	AH driving drunk (Preview) I haven't had access to a computer until today so here's what happened over the weekend. The weekends are almost always rough for my son and me. It was 100 degrees over this last weekend. I took my son to the pool. I always invite my AH to come with, but he always declines because he can't drink and smoke the...	Lindy	3	434	Jul 21, 2006 by maresie2
	I pray I am digging up faster than he is digging down (Preview) Hello (((Everyone))) You know today is one of those days that i don't even want to post this. It seems like everything I say lately is so negative and needy. I am praying for something positive to say SOON, and I am praying that I am digging up and out faster than he is digging down. I can't remember the...	Jennifer	5	365	Jul 21, 2006 by Dolphin123
	worried sick about my a and tired of feeling this way. (Preview) My husband was going out with friends from work tonight. The last time we spoke on the phone was around 5 this afternoon. It is now 11 pm. He was really drunk this afternoon. I am so tired of his inconsideration. He has his cell phone off. My sponser tells me to change my r...	liliana	4	368	Jul 21, 2006 by maresie2
	scared but ok (Preview) last night and today were hellish. last night my 3 year old said the bump on her head was because my mother's live in alcoholic hit her. i wanted to throw up and then kill him. but i didn't react. we ate dinner and i thought about what to do and how to do it. it was late so my decision was to go home and put them to b...	serendipity	4	351	Jul 21, 2006 by Dolphin123
	realistic (Preview) i spent an hour on the phone with my a. he was served on friday so i guess i can start calling him my ex-a. the convo was as ok as it could be. i asked him what he was going to do with the papers (sign them, fight them...) he didn't answer me till later in the convo. he said something about me having full custody an...	serendipity	4	335	Jul 21, 2006 by maresie2
	Money Problems (Preview) Hi, Well the money problems are starting already. A used up the last of his insurance settlement money. Today his checking account shows negative $107 and he doesn't get his disabiilty check until the 1st. With the settlement money the last 5 months he has been living high on th...	lebe27	2	285	Jul 21, 2006 by Karilynn
	love the rain (Preview) Hi, I am in Houston so it rains alot some weeks.I love the rain the storms the lighting .I know soon the sun comes out the rainbow shows and it is over.The calm is here and I made it thuogh the storm.It makes me see it will pass. I thought for all who are going through a storm today you can say...	dori	12	535	Jul 21, 2006 by Diva
	LET GO....~~~~~~ (Preview) To let go does not mean to stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else. To let go is not to cut myself off, it's the realization I can't control another. To let go is not to enable, but allow learning from natural consequences. To let g...	jonibaloni	5	384	Jul 20, 2006 by itsgot2bgd
	giving control and responsibity over to HP & my A (Preview) Well, Today is almost over. We have rides for tommorrow. lol Today, I guess I was suppose to give over control and responsiblity to my HP & my A, Tina. I have been dealing with depression for years. I have been on antidepressants since 1989. Soon after my divorce, I have been on many di...	hmrnrnmm	2	329	Jul 20, 2006 by jonibaloni
	Grateful Me... (Preview) (((Everyone))) I want to thank everyone for all the birthday wishes over the past couple of days. I would also like to thank everyone who each and every day shares their ES&H. From the newcomer who reminds me how far I have come to the oldtimers who show me that I have that much furthe...	AlaMom	4	299	Jul 20, 2006 by Maria123
	Husband in Recovery (Preview) Hi, I met my husband when he had a year and a half sobriety, we have now been together for 6 years and he has 7+years sobriety now. I have never known him when he was drinking and I have never been around other alcoholics before, not friends or family. I have been very supportive and understandi...	mysticmidian	3	373	Jul 20, 2006 by Tammy
	I fell into the pit of his words (Preview) GRUMBLE GRUMBLE Hemming and hawing over posting this but here it goes Good morning (((Everyone))) I'm not gonna go into the whole background of my last few posts because of time, I gotta get to work soon LOL My AH or soon to be ex AH (I'm not sure what to call this relationship anymore) called Monda...	Jennifer	6	412	Jul 20, 2006 by Tammy
	he had no money for a present... (Preview) He said he was sorry but he had no money to get me a present. It's my birthday today. He said he would get me something when he gets paid tomorrow, but that he wouldn't be able to afford much anyway...then he asked me if this was okay. I just said that he should do whatever he has to do. I knew this would hap...	annmarie	12	567	Jul 20, 2006 by Dolphin123
	Don't ever deny an ALCOHOLIC... (Preview) ...don't ever deny an alcoholic his/her suffering. This statement is so meaningful to me, as a recovering alcoholic and as a sponsor of an alcoholic. All the enabling, butt-patting, caretaking and 'rescuing' in the world did not get me sober. Being at a place where I was literally BEATEN down to...	jonibaloni	8	534	Jul 20, 2006 by Becky1
	TLC (Preview) (((TLC))) My long winded friend!! lol i love it. I am glad that things are on the mend!! And I love to here from you weather it is here or in a email. I can so relate to summer and all the excuses but it sure seems like any day of the week could be an excuse for hubby these days. I don't really care...	jj	0	266	Jul 20, 2006 by jj
	I Slipped (Preview) A few days ago, as I was looking on our computer, I found a picture that was emailed to my husband by a man he works with of a girl he has been seeing in another state. In the picture the girl had her shirt pulled up exposing herself. I thought the whole thing was really tacky, the girl is m...	Becky1	10	406	Jul 20, 2006 by Becky1
	Just wanted to say hi. (Preview) Hi Everyone, I am very new to this board. I have been reading over all the posts for the past two days and have learned a lot of things. One is, for sure I am not alone in this. I knew I wasn't, but to hear that other people have the same problems with thier lives and struggle with the AH o...	lovescoping	3	348	Jul 20, 2006 by dori
	Advice for an alcoholic with a girlfriend who drinks? (Preview) A little over 5 years ago, following an especially heavy drinking period, I went to AA and got sober, and have remained alcohol-free since that time. This spring I met and fell in love with someone, and we have recently moved in together. I am a musician and play regularly around...	KCB	11	723	Jul 20, 2006 by KCB
	"drunk" without a drink? (Preview) my A is the second alcoholic i've been with in my life. the last was 16 years ago, when i was young enough to say "i just can't handle this" and move on. he wasn't in recovery yet, he was still in denial. i knew so little about alcohol that i couldn't even tell when he was drunk at first. then i figured out the pa...	purpleraven	6	895	Jul 20, 2006 by dori
	Wonderful, happy vacation!! (Preview) I ate too much seafood e'touffee, too much shrimp gumbo, and too much Tony Chacherie's!!! But what a great time we had doing it. Gained 2 1/2 lbs, so am working now on getting that off. Enjoyed good friends, danced, sang; a real Louisiana good time. I'll catch up on the posts. I have kept you all in my p...	Diva	10	470	Jul 20, 2006 by Andrea12
	Help w/map & pictures please (Preview) ((((((((((((((((Family)))))))))))))))))). Where did the MIP map go? I was going to post a picture of Pipers Kitty and couldn't find the map. Also when I went to change my photo here to one of Pipers, it said that the file was too big. Keeping in mind that I am not as computer savy as the rest of yo...	Karilynn	3	414	Jul 20, 2006 by tea2
	gift from my HP (Preview) Hi Everyone, It was my birthday yesterday...and I know I'm going on...and lots of you sent me well wishes which I really appreciated. I just wanted to share with you how I feel today. He (my Aboyfriend) was surprised to see all the cards and presents I got for my birthday. I have a big family and lot...	annmarie	2	304	Jul 20, 2006 by Rita G
	With or without them... (Preview) Hi everyone: Does anyone have any wisdom on just the roller coaster and uncertainties of this recovery? I am so confused and feeling nuts. I have been up all night lastnight just worried worried worried, I know I shouldn't and I tried not to but the more I tried not to the more my mind just...	hersh	6	372	Jul 20, 2006 by Rita G
	I thought........guess I was wrong (Preview) (I thought) the appt I have Thursday to see the neurologist at 2:45am. I am suppose to get the results of my sleep study test & CTScan. And find out why I am having these migraines. I was hoping to make it to this appt. I was hoping to get on some new medications before I leave on the 26th. If I call a...	hmrnrnmm	3	383	Jul 20, 2006 by leo
	Mouths of Babes... (Preview) Since late yesterday I noticed I have been kind of falling into a bit of a pity pot. I know why and it is really self-inflicted. Tomorrow is my birthday and I will be 38. It is not the age that is getting to me for I know it is only a number and we are as young as we choose to be. The reas...	AlaMom	15	536	Jul 20, 2006 by leo
	feeling sad (Preview) Yesterday I got stung pretty badly by some wasps. My leg is all swollen as is my back. I don't even bother to tell the A. I know he does not care. He would offer nothing anyways. I feel incredibly sad that I live with someone who does not care about me. I did not have the courage to admit that before...	maresie2	9	369	Jul 20, 2006 by leo
	At Peace Now (Preview) Mom left on her final trip yesterday morning at 10:50am to join our dad. She is finally painfree and at peace. Thanks for all the support here. Hugs Mary PS My A has supported me through the last 6 weeks, being right by my side and was with me when mom left us.	marmare	14	503	Jul 20, 2006 by leo
	I answered my own question (Preview) (((friends))) I had a different post here but I erased it.It was a relapse,I think. I had listed some of the resentments I have had come to the surface while doing my 4th step. I re-read my post this morning and my answers were staring me in the face.The resentments I have toward my AH are all due to h...	drucilla06	1	369	Jul 20, 2006 by nmike
	Minimizing (Preview) One of the things that the A does that used to kill me was to minimize my needs. Whatever I want is discounted and diminished. When I had asthma he said I just needed to exercise. When I had sepsis he told me I'd be fine it was all in my head and he could not help me get to the hospital. I eventually ended up with a...	maresie2	3	299	Jul 20, 2006 by annmarie
	are they laughing at me really? (Preview) Hi everyone, I'm trying to figure out why I feel people are laughing at me quite a lot. It's as if I have to struggle to make sure it doesn't happen. If my Aboyfriend does something that upsets me and involves other people (eg inappropriate conversation in my view..not his), I think they're lau...	annmarie	8	495	Jul 20, 2006 by jonibaloni
	I'm I finally getting it????? (Preview) I’m confused I know that when an AA is active in his/her addiction, they don’t care about much i.e.; work, family, themselves and life in general. What I’m confused about is: if the AA in your life is working on sobriety and working the steps going to meetings, go...	angelnomore	3	377	Jul 20, 2006 by Karilynn
	Dealing with mortality (Preview) A friends wife passed on this past week....I met her a few times, and they both were very happy newlyweds....Before the program I probably would have wondered, where is God right now? How could he let this happen?? But thankfully I know that it is all part of a plan, one I cant see. I however can only exten...	buzzfree	9	629	Jul 20, 2006 by dwa1163
	I want to give up. I am not understanding why I screwed up the truck. (Preview) I do not know which way to go now. I totally screwed up yesterday. I blame myself. My A says that HP has a reason for yesterdays disaster. I was doing great or so I thought. I got outside an hour before I had to leave. I was going to take off the fuel filter that screws into the carborator. I have d...	hmrnrnmm	8	347	Jul 20, 2006 by smpoli
	Making decisions using recovery thinking (Preview) As a child, to help keep the fragile balence that was our alcholic home, decisions were generally made for me. From what I wore to what I ate, I was told what to do. Furthermore, when I made my own decisions, I was told (very loudly and violently) that I had made a "mistake" and that I needed "to learn...	Tiger2006	5	506	Jul 20, 2006 by nmike
	thanks to all (Preview) Thanks to all who replied to my post last week. I went away for a few days so until now did not have a chance to reply.... It helps so much to share with others our experiences although at times it is difficult even on here. The release of finally begining to figure out these confusing feeli...	jj	1	500	Jul 19, 2006 by TLC2
	Some Birthday! UGH! (Preview)   I	afmom03	5	367	Jul 19, 2006 by maresie2
	Inner Child and Aging Parents (Preview) Hi, My parents are in their 70s and I find myself getting increasingly preoccupied and concerned with their health issues. I feel like a child inside despite my advancing age (39- LOL). I love them so much and can't imagine anything happening to them. I would be devastated. I think there is someth...	nal	2	411	Jul 19, 2006 by just me
	So Confused! (Preview) Ok I am frusted to all end again. I don't understand why my HP does the things they do. I was really hoping that today would turn out for the better. I was hoping he would finally see what damaged he had caused his family not to mention mine. I had a long talk with his family they agreed helping him fi...	DoN4me	5	437	Jul 19, 2006 by DoN4me
	Sharing my miracles (Preview) A PM with (((bump))) the other day inspired me to think back of the miracles in my life, so I want to share as I truly believe they can't be coincedense. Starting with finding Alanon, and at the same time connecting with a cousin that I am very close to. The miracle: Alanon cut the path of chang...	Christy	6	323	Jul 19, 2006 by Karilynn
	Staggering down the road of recovery (Preview) ((((Everyone)))) Thanks to my wonderful family here, I have realized that my compass may be broken. I was heading full speed down the path of recovery for myself, and I missed a turn somewhere. I have gotten anxious and resentful again without realizing it. Had a conversati...	rtexas	5	369	Jul 19, 2006 by Rita G
	What is "AW" (Preview) Hi all, i see this here a lot, but couldnt make it what means, do get the first - alcoholic, but what is W stand for? exuse me my ingorance Daisy	daisy2	6	595	Jul 19, 2006 by daisy2
	Taking it too personal.... (Preview) I learned of someones remark about me the other night that hurt, and my first reaction was to get fired up and say something mean about them. I stopped myself mid-sentence and changed the topic. ( a little progress!) However, it lead to a later committee meeting. That dreaded committee! ...	greta	5	498	Jul 19, 2006 by annmarie
	DAISY (Preview)	ollie	6	362	Jul 19, 2006 by daisy2
	Hello All!! (Preview) Hi Everybody! I haven't been around here for awhile and I miss everybody. I come here almost everyday and read the posts and keep tabs on ya'll (not to sound creepy thought :) ). I have been busy with my purse orders and candle orders and getting my flooring done plus one of my cats had kitt...	ragingchild	3	312	Jul 19, 2006 by ragingchild
	ARE YOU RESPONSIBLE FOR HOW YOU FEEL, OR DO YOU BLAME EVERYONE FOR YOUR UNHAPPINESS? (Preview) For years I blamed everyone else for my unhappiness,my feelings of dispair and worry. Coming to alanon I can see blaming my parents, my husband , my siblings, or my children was wrong. I learned in alanon that I was responsible for my own happiness, that no one didnt owe it to me to make me happy. I h...	gardengal	7	369	Jul 19, 2006 by athena12
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