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I just wanted to share some good news. My A decided that he was going to pay me a little support last weekend out of his check from his new job. I sure was glad to get something. I took the kids to see him and we went out to eat at a local game place where the kids could play. We had a good time and I enjoyed it. I brought up the subject of the repoed truck and he said he wasn't going to do anything about it and started talking about how I chose to move out bla bla bla so I just changed the subject and didn't let him get to me. I find it ironic that he would resent me for leaving even though he was directly the cause and told me to choose between him and my daughter. Oh well, that's as much thought as I'm giving that! Days have been good, carefree for the most part and with support they can only get better. I had already decided that if I can't make it here I will take the kids back to Washinton and stay with my mom to pay some bills off (dread). I'm praying I find a way to make it here!
The weather is still pretty icky out here in WA, but you'll still have all of us online to lean on, and I'm sure you will meet new people in WA -- the 'families' I've been to have been really great.
((())) cj
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time to stop going to the hardware store to buy bread.