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debilyn


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I have lost everyone in my family except my daughter. don't see her as she lives far away.


a very very wonderful woman adopted me. she was my mom. she was everything to me and I to her.


I won't be here for awhile. I may read but cannot respond for awhile.


not real jazzed about living right now. but the creator seems to want me here.


love,debilyn



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((((((((((((Debilyn)))))))))))


My heart aches for your loss. I am sorry. Take the time you need to heal, I will miss you and will be sending my thoughts and prayers your way.


Jennifer



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((((Debi))))

So sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers.

Love...Gail

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(((((Debilyn))))


I am so sorry for your loss!!!  There are no words of wisdom that can change your pain, but I love you and I hope the pain eases!  Keep reading and take one day at a time.  We will miss your words, but we know you are still with us.  You are in my prayers.


Take care.


Dawn


 



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((((debilyn)))),

I'm so sorry sweetie. Try to remember that death is a part of life and that you'll see her again. I know that doesn't help much right now, nothing does...please know that we all love you and hope you will take good care at this sad time..

Christy

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((((((((Debilyn)))))))))


  I am so sorry for your loss ... for your mom and for the totality of your loss.


You are in my prayers.


Much love coming your way,


emma



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Debilyn,


I'm so sorry for your loss....you will be in my prayers.  May God bring you comfort during this difficult time.


Love,


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(((Debilyn)))


So sorry for your loss and the pain you are feeling.  There is not much comfort that anyone can offer you, but hopefully knowing your are loved and respected by others will give you a sense of peace.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers.


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(((Debilyn))), so sorry for your loss.

Nancy

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(((((( Debilyn ))))))



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(((((Deb))))


I went through the same thing when I lost my best friend .... my mom.  she was and still is my hero.


Yes, take some time ..... but not too much.  I went into a major, major depression when I did and did not know to reach out for help.


Love and Hugs and Prayers,


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(((((Debilyn)))))


I'm so sorry for your loss.  I love you and am sending prayers on your behalf.  Be strong, and take all the time you need.  I will miss you ~


Kathi



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(((((Debilynn))))) my thoughts and prayers are with You.  have always looked forward to your posts, please do not stay away... too long.  ~know that we are here and love you very much. 



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Please know I extend my deepest sympathies to you in your time of hurting. I am very very sorry for your loss .

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((((((((Debilyn)))))))))


 


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((((((((((((debilyn)))))))))


   I am sorry for your loss.  You are in my prayers.


                          hugs,


                          danz



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Debilyn:  I know things are hard between you and your son right now. I also know they have been good.  I know for a fact that my own issues have really clouded many many of my relationships.  I feel very very very alone a lot of the time.  I hope in time you and your son can reconnect and you can find joy in his life and his children.


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Becky1


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((((((Deb)))))


I have been wondering where you have been the last few days.


Oh, girl, my heart just breaks for you.  But you received a lot of good ESH from your friends here who care deeply about you.  I liked what Christy said, about death being a part of life.  And you will see your Mom again.  You know that already.


Know that you are in my heart and prayers.  Don't stay away too long. 


Sending love and prayers your way.  May HP hold you in his arms now.


Love in Recovery,


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Sorry for your loss Debilyn.....


I don't always think we can make sense out of these things, but perhaps your HP was recognizing that you are now strong enough to go through this, from all the good things that this woman brought into your life???  Just a thought....


 


Take care


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I am so sorry for your loss.  I lost my mother in March.

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(((((Debilyn)))))))


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I am so sorry Debilynn.


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Take comfort, dear, as much as needed.  (((D))) I love you and my prayers are with you.
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Oh, deb, do what you can for comofort - hug those animals. Is there anyone who you can talk to about her, who knew her too? It is so comforting to share some of those good memories.

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Just want to add my loving hugs (((((((((((Debilyn)))))))))))))),

Not gonna say much because at a time like this, it's just nice to have someone who understands, someone who cares, someone who can listen, and someone who will hug ya.

My mom died many years ago when I was 26. It hurt real bad.

Love ya,
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Hello Deb am so sorry for your loss .  Love Louise

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My prayers and smpathy go out to you and your daughter. Stay close to those fur animals! love yas! fluffy xoxoxoxxo

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I am sorry for your loss.  I send my prayers to all concerned.


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AndiLynn


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((((debilyn)))))) I am sorry to hear about the passing of your Mother. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.


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Debilyn I am so very sorry to hear this news. Take care of yourself, and remember you have lots and lots of friends here keeping you in our prayers and thoughts.

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Debilyn you don't just have your daughter you have all of us.  You only need to see the responses to know how much we all care about you.  Take as much time as you need to grieve over your Mum but please can you just post I am okay every couple of days so we know you are allright?  You know your Mum knew how special you were when she adopted you as we all do here.  You are in my thoughts reach out to us when you are low that is what we are here for.  (((()) Luv Leo xxx 

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debilyn,


i too have been wondering where you have been.


we'll be here when you get back,


and,


thinking of you while you are gone.


blessings ,


jewely



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(((Debilyn))),

I am so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself through this. You are in my prayers and thoughts.

Blessings,
AM

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Wanted to clarify. I lost my bio wonderful "Mother" in 2000 to breast cancer. I was devistated. She was my best bud, only 17 years older than I.


I was left a very messed up lady. Somehow I met this older lady, we got closer and closer, I loved her and her husband and boys.


She started calling me her daughter and being my mom. I was so blessed. they are my parents. Helped me keep my home in many ways, were always there for me. She sent me packages with new cloths. I never buy new ones. cards, money, sponsored a needy piggy, Hoglicious.


We were in contact daily if not twice. Very involved in each others lives. She loved to boss me around and I loved it too.


I was so blessed with this woman. She was my mom, no one would ever argue that.


In my life I have experienced so much love from some very incredible humans. I have many good memories. Some people never have that.


anyway it is am here and i gotta try to go back to sleep. thank you for all your thoughts and hugs.


It really is the love of others that gets us thru this horrible grief. At least it does for me.


Your friend,debilyn



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Sending you lots of love and prayers.  (((((((debilynn))))))

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(((debilynn)))
Sorry for you loss. Take care of you. You will be in my prayers.

love,
rosie

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Lexie


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I am so very sorry for your loss.  Please know you are in my prayers.  Do what you have to do for you, but please don't isolate.  Being around people that love you will help to ease your pain.


Love and blessings to you as you grieve ~ Lexie



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((Dearest Debilyn)))


My prayers and many hugs of love come to you during this time of grief.  Remember that we make so many wonderful friends (and family) in this life, and the memories of your "mom" and your wonderful friendship will teach you love and acceptance, and hopefully inspire you to make new friends and family on this journey we call life.  I am so sorry for your loss.  I have dealt with the loss of my stepchildren's mother recently, and they are having a hard time also.  If I have learned one thing about dealing with death lately, it is to CHERISH every moment, and live each day fully, and love each other.... don't waste one moment.


I love you,


HeidiXXXX



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So sorry to hear about Mom She sounded like a wonderful person in your life


Hang on to your good memories and take care of yourself Know that we all


care for you and are thinking of you   Luv Busbe



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Becky1


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((((Deb))) No explanation needed....a mom is a mom is a mom.....it's just a word, but it can describe either biological or a person who is connected by heart. 


So glad you had this other mom is your life.  I'm sure she was equally blessed to have had you in hers.


(((Deb))))


Love in Recovery,


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