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i told her to day that i need to break away from her on the phone i told her i love her but she
says she dont love me,i have push my feeling for her to the back of my head more times than you can count but it builds up and drive me nuts about,
in the past i have posted about how i send email to her but she wont to me,so i try not to exspect that much from her
but when i would talk to her she would get un friendly with me and not talk much
so today on the phone i told her that i find it hard to be just friends because of the way i feel
so i told her i would not cut her off like i usually do,and she say ok to this because she does not love me like i do her
so about a hour ago she ims me with thing going on in her life which she would never talk to me before with,and she call me her best friend which confuse me,now my head wants to beleave
that she does love me because she wants me back as her best friend not lover,
what do you think i should do.it sound like she want her cake and eat it too
Yes, it does sound like she is playing games with you. Thee is really not much point in trying to figure out other people, best to just, as always, keep the focus on yourself.
