If you were to look up the definition of "humility" it would begin with the words "not proud, not needing to boast or call attention to oneself or their accomplishments." I think what you're really describing is how humbled you feel when you notice the behaviors in yourself that irritate you in others. Indeed, be humbled--be humbled because the practice of humility is the reality of being a human being. It is the actualization that I am not god and that I am no more or less than any of God's creations walking this earth.

 Because we crave a way, as humans, to differentiate ourselves, I feel to some extent it is normal that we want to find ways to "superiorize" ourselves. We want to know who is "the best;" who has "the most;" who has "achieved." We want recognition for ourselves, our work, and what we've achieved as we've grown. But the risk here is that our desire for acknowledgement quickly borders itself on approval seeking; our feeling of superiority quickly become gradiosity; our desire to serve the greater good of humanity becomes a cause of atttention getting, rather than attention giving.

 Rather than punishing yourself for realizing the humanity of yourself, I would suggest that you realize the process taking place. As you begin to hold yourself accountable for your progress and growth, hopefully you won't feel a need to take other people's inventory; you will find in yourself that you're too occupied with your own to  mind other people's business. A worthwile challenge might be to really look at why you feel a need to become frustrated with the pace of your growth, rather than being relieved by it--is there a need being fufilled by self punishing behaviors?

Standing in line to get my coin -- with humility and gratitude  --- again.

(hope you have a big bag of those, LOL)